There this guy that my friend knows. So she gave me his number and we've been talking for about a month. He goes to the same school as me, but I never see him. So basically we just talk on the phone, and im each other. I barely found out he got w/ someone a couple days ago. Should I wait 2 see if he's going 2 tell me he has a gf, so I can be aware of it. Or act like i don't even know anything and confront him this weekend? Help pleeze ♥
2007-01-30 14:35:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best idea is to wait a day or two (no more than four) to see if he confesses. if he doesnt tell you about his girlfriend, then hes obviously a player.. after about two or three days (if he hasnt confessed and owned up to having a girlfriend) then say something along the lines of "so i heard this rumor about you and this chick datin.." or "sooo... whats this i hear about you and (insert name here)" just mention it causally, definitely NOT accusingly.. that would ruin any friendship youve built up.. but in another light if he does like YOU, but is dating another girl he may not tell you because he might think youll stop talking to him once you find out he has a girlfriend.. or that itll change yalls relationship.. but really wait for him to tell you.. if he doesnt then casually bring it up, not accusingly.. if he touches on the subject then moves onto another then avoid the subject for about a week then ask how him and his girlfriend are doing.. but any convo concerning this.. keep it casual
2007-01-30 14:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you don't know about it, but don't confront him about it until he tells you. If you see that he has no intention to do so, be free to do what you want, but don't cause a scene. It will look like you're fighting over him and ou know that you're better than that. He probably feels bad about it and is gathering his courage to tell you, so give him time. If it's a rumor, you don't want to say anything stupid and then find out it's not true and he holds it against you for not trusting him. Wait and see what happens. If he does have a girlfriend and after breaking up with her he comes crawling back, don't even think about it. He did it once, he'll do it again. Good luck.
2007-01-30 14:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he got with someone it may be that she is not his girlfriend but just a friend. Maybe the best thing to do is to ask him about what you heard about him and see what he says. At least as far as today is concerned give him the benefit of the doubt and don't rush to judge him. You wouldn't want anyone to judge you too soon would you? Find out the facts first and see where they lead you and act accordingly.
2007-01-30 14:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the cyber-relationship thing, but probably just because I'm from a different generation, but I don't believe in long distance relationships either.If he's not committed to you other than being a friend, then what's the problem?
2007-01-30 14:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by barbara b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well i think you should shut up for a couple of days and see what happens but if he doesnt tell you that meens he thinks of you as more than a friend if that's what your asking but if he's all cool about it and tells you then he likes u as a friend.
2007-01-30 14:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anthing. After all you both are not actually together. You don't owe him any explanations either about who choose to spend time with. But if you know he is seeing someone, just let it go. There are plenty of cuties out there, don't date someone else's.
2007-01-30 14:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you don't know, then confront. if you really like him, he's not worth it because he was just playing you? Plus he didn't SEEK you, I am old fashioned, and personally I don't like girls who ask their friends for my number. They should ask me and let me know whats up. Anyways, if he doesn't tell you, then you obviously will know that he was playing with you and doesn't see you as more then just a friend.
2007-01-30 14:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by pokeralchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't even bother get out before it's too late,or you'll be singing Chain of Fools like Aretha Franklin !!! You don't have any attachments to him ditch him loose his number and don't accept his calls.
2007-01-30 14:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont confront him. See how long it takes him to tell you, but remember you cant be upset because u guys arent dating.
2007-01-30 14:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u guys just friend or there is something more to it. If not, just ask him and congratulate him, if he denies then never mind. If yes, then ask him and if he denies, try to find out the truth, if he accepts then wish him gud luck and move on.
2007-01-30 14:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋