Andy, my ex, was too obssessed playing video games, so whenever I called, he was like,"I cant talk and we cant hang out today cuz I'm playing video games!!!" It ticked me off, and now hes my ex... so he literally hates me, cuz hes said,"it got annoying whenever you called me and I was playing video games." SO immature, I mean, how was I suppose to know he was playing video games at that moment anyways? he'd like through a tantrum if i interrupeted his "video game playing" and he calls me the spaz!!! he over reacted WAY too much, and oddly, I cant get over him! i need serious help! i still think of us as "together" because we also had good times.
2007-01-30 14:29:49 · 28 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he likes the videos better, find someone more mature
2007-01-30 14:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by elliepenelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Video games have probably caused as many marital problems as money and cheating. You need to get this goob away from the video game and ask him this - "Anj, in 10 years or so, I wonder if you will look back and think about the time you wasted playing these games."
You people need to experience living. Sitting in front of a tube or video game is no way to enjoy the short life you are given. It may seem like you have years to go but life is just a vapor. It's here then gone.
Get out of the house and enjoy living!
2007-01-30 14:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by P W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how long and how serious the relationship was, it's perfectly normal to still feel emotionally involved. The best way to combat this is by distraction and good ol' Father Time - which is the toughest one to deal with because you really have no control over it.
Good distractions are talking about and expressing your feelings to those who will listen and understand. Have a Girls-Night out with your friends. As immature as it sounds, have an "Ex-Boyfriends Suck" party. Also, try being more involved with work or school, pick-up a new hobby ... there's all sorts of distractions out there, you just have to be creative. And hey, if you're ready, no one says you can't date a little to realize that there are better guys out there who will treat you to good times, also.
Good luck!
2007-01-30 14:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Joa5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this guy not have a pause button on his game console? He should take pause for a moment to evaluate what his priorities in life are. One of them should be having a wonderful girlfriend who wants to be with him. You can't get love out of a video game. Apparently he has an adolescent mentality, unless of course he is an adolescent. Lose this guy find some one who is going to be there for you. You will find a nice guy with whom you will have more good times with, maybe even better than the good times you had with this guy. Picking video games over a girlfriend is lamest of the lame.
2007-01-30 14:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
greetings...you've hit the nail on the head.."looser". forgive me, i know that's not fair to say that because i don't know this person but the day a video game takes priority over the company of a nice girl well if the shoe fits...obviously he's fixed more on the fantasy world rather than the real one. just for a moment let's look at the big picture. is this really someone you see yourself with in ten years. I'm sure you can do better. he doesn't deserve you. I've found that the quickest way to rid yourself of these unwanted feelings is to find something or someone else to occupy your time. unfortunately people like your ex get locked into a world of their own and loose focus on what's really going on. the sad truth is there's little you can do about it. quit calling, or showing up to see him. make yourself unavailable for now if he decides to contact you. you don't have to be rude about it just be upfront. make him want to be with you on your terms, not his. in the meantime set your sights on greater things. you sound like a nice person with alot on the ball. try this...the next time you feel like being with him, just remind yourself of how it makes you feel when he brushes you off, or hurts your feelings. your better than that. blow this guy off and get out there and find someone who's worthy of you. good luck
2007-01-30 14:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're calling him your ex aren't you. i'd just hang out some times if you really want to but if he can't get a hold on reality and stop play in video games he's not worth it. i play video games too but i know when to stop and always put my friends and family first, Andy should too or at least try. you are more important then a video game.
2007-01-30 14:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by fishgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God--get a grip--it is over--he wants games and not you---stop the baby drama act---get a real man with a real life who knows how to treat a woman. Boys are lame at your age---you have got to start looking for boys with some kind of plan---and you need to get going with all this. Time is too valuable. Sorry this happened--but good luck in the future--I hope you learned something.
2007-01-30 14:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel, when some one is putting video games before the person they are with how can you possibly have any type of relationship. You need to spend your time finding someone who is a partner who will do things with you. Who is about you and you are about him or her.
2007-01-30 14:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by MissT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do like being treated badly and called names and know that he doesn't care about you or your feelings?? if so then by all means stay, but if not then you already know you need to move on and find someone who will give you the time of day and not pick a stupid game over you!!
2007-01-30 14:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself someone else. It sounds like your ex puts the video games before you.
2007-01-30 14:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup sounds immature. However if you havent talked about his time on video gaming you best better. Come to an agreement and see what happens.
2007-01-30 14:35:45 · answer #11 · answered by KevinJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋