i have had sex with my boyfriend (hes now my fiance) but i prayed for my baby even though i knew having sex before marriage was a sin......but since that was already my sin then would asking for a baby be a sin too
2007-01-30 14:22:24 · 18 answers · asked by layla 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
A bond of love is something two people make together and it needs no one to approve it, love is self approving raise your
child to love the world.
2007-01-30 14:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is how I understand your situation. We know that sex outside marriage is a sin. But we also sin in so many ways to God not only having sex outside marriage. But I understand that we have a God who pardons us all when we come to His Jesus Christ to ask for forgiveness and recieved Him as your personal Lord and Savior. So if you worried about committing a lot of sins God can forgive you all of that. The better place you can find the right answer to your question is by reading your Bible. This is the only accurate book that can give you the answer your looking.
2007-01-30 22:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by jjule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that you want to have a special gift from God, a baby. It is a sin to be sleeping with your boyfriend before marriage, but to say it is a sin to pray for a child, I don't know that I would say that. Its really God's choice if he grants you with a child. Sometimes, a child is given even in a not holy situation for other reasons that are God's purpose.
2007-01-30 22:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Gardener for God(dmd) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've had sex with someone other than your spouse, that is adultery, however, in biblical times sleeping with someone was as good as an engagement to the person. When you had sex with someone, you became committed to marry him/her. Often bc the women needed a man to take care of them, and they wouldn't be able to marry on their own if they weren't a virgin. Additionally, sex is a deep emotional and spiritual bond, and so marrying after having it respects that bond. While I think it was a mistake to have sex before marriage bc doubts can arise (if you couldn't control yourself before marriage, maybe you'll stray inside it, if you didn't value it enough to wait) you are doing the right thing in being responsible and committing yourself to the person in marriage. Remember, marriage is a lifelong commitment, you need to stick with it, especially since you have a child involved who will need both a father and a mother.
Love is a decision, not an emotion, emotions change regularly, love is a decision to be patient, kind, not take offense, etc. Stick to that decision, and you won't have as many worries.
2007-01-30 22:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by STEPHEN J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVING a baby before marriage is a sin (in every religion, I believe), but asking for one before marriage... I'd just say, why ask for it until you're married?
Repent for past sins, and don't repeat them so you can be forgiven.
Peace and blessings be upon you!
2007-01-30 22:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♡♥ sHaNu ♥♡ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I never knew that GOD made babies. All this time, I thought it was because of sperm cells from the testicles encountering an ovum released from the ovaries, and now you tell me that people have to PRAY for a baby?? Well, I guess we can all just forget everything we learned in sex ed. class, huh?
2007-01-30 22:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by Antique Silver Buttons 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
David sinned. Then he sinned to cover up his sin.One thing leads to another. He paid a heavy price with the evil it brought into his family.
Sin:
It will keep you longer than you wanted to stay.
It will cost you more than you wanted to pay.
I suggest you read Psalm 51, on your knees.
2007-01-30 22:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by William F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is admirable that you want to have children... The problem is that God created the institution of marriage. He married Adam to Eve. So what you need to do is STOP having sex, repent, wait til marriage... Then I imagine you'll have all the children that God intends on you to have...
2007-01-30 22:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we're all sinful, but if you know it is a sin and continually pursue it anyways, you are doing God a great disservice as well as yourself.
2007-01-30 22:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by sillycanuckpei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't judge that, but what I do know is that if you do your best to raise your baby in the way that you know God wants you to then God will see the love you have for your baby and that will please God. Best wishes for your marriage.
2007-01-30 22:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by mountainclass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋