well i was in Love with someone and he died almost a year ago. i dont know how do deal with it and i have been confused on what to think. untill now i havent been even semi-comfortable about talking about it.
i was in love with him and then, just like that, he was gone. i do not know how to deal with this happening to me. i write letters to him all the time, they are in a shoebox under my bed. i was the only one to ever make him smile, that alone, knowing that he was happy, made me happy. i loved him more than you would know..
i just want to know what i can do to make myself feel better. ever since his death i have been constantly thinking about him and i have felt just awful.. someone please help me..
please, do not tell me i am too young to love... i know what love feels like and it was the very feeling in my stomach when i saw him..
2007-01-30 14:14:28 · 6 answers · asked by cutiepi8903 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
NO ONE IS TOO YOUNG TO LOVE AND ALL PEOPLE TAKE DEATH DIFFERENTLY. WRITING HIM LETTERS IS GOOD FOR YOUR SOUL. YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK. YOU WILL ALWAYS MISS HIM AND WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM AND FOR EVER REMEMBER HIM AND HE KNOWS THAT,HE IS WITH YOU ALWAYS. YOU KEEP HIM ALIVE IN YOUR HEART. YOU WILL HAVE SOME GOOD DAYS AND SOME REAL BAD ONES. BUT,ITS OKAY. BLESS YOUR LITTLE HEART AND I I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. SMILE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.
2007-01-30 14:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my boyfriend when I was a senior in high school, then a couple of months later, I lost my dad. It's very hard, and everyone deals with it in different ways. I think if you are having trouble still, a support group would be helpful. I know it sounds 'corny', but it's good to be with other people that may feel the same way or at least to empathize with you. They might possible have some ideas to help you move on. I used to write poetry, write songs for the guitar..That kinda helped me. But mostly I think time helped... You can move on, and still love him. Cause what you two shared can never be taken away. And part of him will always be with you, cause he shared himself with you, and changed you as a person. Another thing too, it sounds as if you guys had something special. He wouldn't want to see you go on being sad for the rest of your life. Share your feelings with someone you can trust. I talked alot to friends, but they were good listeners. Sorry for your loss.
2007-01-30 22:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by nickname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...well i don't think it matters what age u are..u can be in love at anytime in ur life. You might not think that u will find another guy but u will...u will find out that u can love again..and it will be a totally new way of love. A different love than your first. But it will be so great. Im sure that's what he wants for you too. Do you go to church?? If u do ..u can always get involved in youth activities too. Just something to get ur mind of of him. Not to forget him of course cause u never will...there will be times that u will think of him..maybe cry over his lost. I'ts natural, i lost my grandma a few years ago..she was like my second mom. She took care of me more than my mom did. I cried for weeks.,..then i slowly started getting over it..i got involved in my church and hung out with friends. Then i graduated from high school with my grandpa in the hospital..then he died not too long after. So i have been through alot too...sorry this is so long..i just hope you get through this and i know u will....know that someone loves you always, whether they r gone or here.
2007-01-30 22:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by texanchick0086 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you live you die, just a fact of life. If your religious, talk to your pastor or priest. They can teach you about dealing with death better than anyone.
But I do know that you cant dwell on the past, your lost loved one wouldn't want that for you.
2007-01-30 22:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by graphix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really talk to a counselor. There is a website www.groww.com I used this sight when my son died and it helped me alot because I could talk to people who could relate to my loss
2007-01-30 22:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by mamaac43 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW YOUR FEELING .. SORRY FOR YOUR LOST , I WOULD RECOMMEND REPLACING YOUR LOST FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS WITH A PICTURE OF OUR LORD , JESUS CHRIST, GOD BLESS YOU!
2007-01-30 22:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋