if i try something new like wearing a different style of clothing, my friends make a big deal about it and i REALLY don't like that, but i don't like the style of clothing i'm wearing now. what can i do or say to them?
2007-01-30 14:13:15 · 11 answers · asked by laura03125 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
nothing.. ignore them.. just smile and go on your way..
sometimes marching to the beat of yuour own drum is the best way to get others to notice that you are your own self and you arent comfortable conforming to the modern every day standers of the expected life.. make your own waves and you will see that others will soon jump in and splash in your own creativity.. be yourself be a leader not a follower.. if you act as if it doesnt bother you, which it shouldnt if your ok with it and your self esteem is in tact than you will soon find other will follow or go off in their own directions.. many are afraid to be their own selfs because of what others will say.. you can be the first to show that no one had to do what is expected its ok to be different
2007-01-30 14:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem too except they don't make it so much of big deal.
You wear what YOU want. It really doesn't matter what they say. They are your friends, they are supposed to understand. If they start "isolating" you, tell them that they shouldn't be judging you by how you look. Heck, you might even start a new trend!! If they still make a HUGE deal about it, then get new friends. The issue will usually drop, so just stay put. Clothes is seriously overrated sometimes, but yeah. Just do what you want to do.
2007-01-30 22:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jade Heart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing to them! You are unique! That is your style! Wear what you like and do what you love, difference makes you a unique person in this world!
2007-01-31 00:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by smarttany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peer pressure is strong, but those same friends wont even remember you in a few years time. Try going your own way, you might even start a new trend yourself.
2007-01-30 22:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear what you like-after a day or two it won't be different anymore and your friends will drop it.
2007-01-30 22:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by ambr123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should feel free to wear what you want. Who cares what your friends say?
2007-01-30 22:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by angelicjolie2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them 2 kick rocks...u like what u like and this new style is what u like for right now
2007-01-30 22:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by k_sheena21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear what make you feel good.
2007-01-30 22:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by shaneppayne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to take a compliment.
2007-01-30 22:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by All_Dawgs_Go_To_Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them, your happy with it, and that is all that matters.
2007-01-30 22:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by kallmetigger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋