my best cousin has a baby and she 14.my family does not want me to be around her but i love her and my godchild.but i only see them 1 every 12 times a year. if i was your child would you do this to me
YES OR NO
2007-01-30 13:57:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
No, I would not. I'm sorry that you're being kept from your cousin, who probably could really use your support. Try talking to your family again later, hopefully they'll come around.
2007-01-30 14:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by susiemama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,Yes, Yes Being that she is your best cousin would be that you are looking up to her .You like how she is what she does how she talks and so on. So naturally you going to pick up on things that she does and what she did was mess around with a guy and got pregnant . Your parents are looking at you the way you two get along so well and wonder if your going to do the same. Not to mention what your parents think about the people that hang around your cousin . I think your parents just love you and i believe they just don't wont you to have to go threw or even have in front of you the decision you cousin had to go threw .
That just shows me that your parents love you very much . Stick with your mom and dad there the only ones that will be there for you in the long run .
I do feel sorry for your cousin and would like to pop the guy in the eye that got that baby pregnant but maybe if she would have listened to someone that told her to stay away she wouldn't be going threw what she is now. And believe me she has a long and hard road to go down . It would be best for you to keep your life on track and grow up the rite way like your parents wont you to then when your life is all set you can help your cousin and her baby but at your age there is nothing you can do to help her or the baby.
2007-02-03 12:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see where your parents are coming from. They dont want you getting ideas about having a baby when you are that young. The best thing to do is to just have "the talk" with them. Assure them that you are not going to have sex until you are married (even if it's not true). Tell them that you really care for your cousin, and everyone makes mistakes and you really want to hang out with her.
2007-01-30 17:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn't stop you, however your parents are just worried about you and don't what your cousin to be a bad influence on you. Maybe you could talk to your parents about the situation your cousin is in and let them know that you understand their concerns but you know how hard it in for your cousin and won't make the same mistakes. I have two your daughters and I would like to think that we could talk about issues like this rather then isolating them from the world.
2007-01-30 17:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by brittoangel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They dont want you to think its cool to have a baby at a young age, so they are trying to protect you from that. In a way I can see why it is right, but again shes family and if your parents trust you and know that you know better, then there should not be a problem.
2007-01-30 14:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by angel01182 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no cause maybe you being around the baby and relizing how hard it is to take care of a newborn would make you want ot wait to have a baby im 20 and jsut had a baby and now im wishing i coudl of waited
2007-01-30 14:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by Alyson C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i wouln't stop you. I had my son at 18, and my daughter at 22. ( I am now 24) Hopefully you would realize what a struggle it is and you would want to help her and support her, but be smart enough not to join her.
2007-01-30 14:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The yolks are ok until eventually now 365 days however the whites only after 365 days as they're extraordinarily allergenic. ensure they're completely cooked, no runny bits as eggs can carry salmonella.
2016-09-28 05:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, She is family, You need to spend time with her. and she needs you. and you could see what it is like to have a baby.
Maybe you should talk to your mum and dad
2007-02-02 16:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just because she has a child doesn't mean that you would make that mistake. I think it is wrong. Accidents happen.
2007-01-30 14:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by mdoud01 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋