Alrighty, so I have a little bit of an issue. I have this *amazing* boyfriend. I've always been the type of girl to stick up for something I believe in. I am very much apposed to smoking* (not cigarettes). I have never done it, nor will I ever. I don't like being around it and always told myself that I would never be with anyone who does. And of course, I'm not with this amazing guy but unfortunately he does, although, it's not all the time anymore. Even so, when he does, I find myself getting upset and having an attitude with him. I don't know why and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions???
2007-01-30 13:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't have anything to do with this doper
2007-01-30 13:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cigarettes are worse....
Does he know that you don't like it and don't usually have an interest in people that do that? If not, you should tell him that you have strong feelings against it. He might just like you enough to quit for you, or at least let up on it a lot. It'll also let him know why you get upset and get an attitude..
2007-01-30 13:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that type of smoke affects different people differently so without knowing what he is really doing how can you disapprove I agree that some people have no business smoking but for some people it is as routine or as effective as drinking a cup of coffee if you really care about knowing this guy or properly judging people you should get to know him and make sure its not simply the act of smoking but the effect it has on him
2007-01-30 13:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by tryintohelp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people are just gonna do what they're gonna do. you can stop it cuz if u try to then it might push him away. but u should definatly tell him how you feel. and you say he is so amazing but yet his habits have a major effect on you and i know if my guy did that sort of thing i wouldnt describe him as amazing. good luck
2007-01-30 13:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by ..cHeRi.. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't cry, dry, your eye, everyone lets get high, no really tell him you dont like it and see if he will only smoke when your not around or get him to stop completley, it's not cool belive me
2007-01-30 13:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by lstbob51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE WILL NEVER CHANGE
MOVE ON
2007-01-30 13:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋