My ex-boyfriend is 26 while I’m 21. We dated for a very short time then HE ended it. WE never had sex cuz I’m saving myself for marriage. It has been a year since I’ve seen him & he called me & asked me to go see a movie w/him. I went, he picked me up, then he took me home after the movie. When I asked him why he wanted to see me he said he wants to see me “every once in awhile”. What does this mean & why? He went to Asia for a few weeks and when he came back we talked on msn but I initiated it. He would still talk to me on msn even after it was over but he just never asked to see me. After the hangout, he hasn't talked to me much & hasn't asked to hangout again why? will he ever ask me again?If he wants to be friends why can’t he even say hi to me on msn like he use to before? Should I wait and see or just ask HIM for coffee one time?
2007-01-30 13:03:34 · 16 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that dont ask him anythin for now. keep ur head high nd i think he just wants to be friends with you dats all and his tryin to be nice to u. he prolly missed u nd wanted to see how u were doin since he knows ur a good girl. if he asks u to hangout one more which i think he will if he said i wanna see u once in a while then he may still have somethin for u.
2007-01-30 13:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by ~janna~ 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What exactly will you gain by keeping this relationship alive? I commend you for knowing what you want and not "giving" in. He does not feel the same about your beliefs, even if he respects it. I think he made a friendly gesture toward you and you need to keep it at that. As women, we read to much into a man's motive. He does not see what him asking you to the movies mean the way you see it...and that is ok. Let him get on with his life and you do the same. The best thing for you is to find someone who shares your beliefs and date. Stop reading into his actions and create unnecessary stress for yourself. You'll drive yourself crazy while his home pondering on the next chick.
2007-01-30 13:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex. Why would he bother. He is checking back with you to see if you are ready to put out.
BTW, big mistake to wait for marriage to have sex. You better figure out what you like before you get married. Marriage is a big important step that you should not leap into.
You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it, and a car is so insignificant. Marriage is way beyond that in importance.
Give it up to him.
2007-01-30 13:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by g g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has found another girl that has all his time. as it looks you and his relationship is on a friendly level. when he asked you out to the movies he probably just wanted to hang out with you, you were the right person to chill with. don't think too much on whats going on.. just note him and see how he's doing. you guys are not together so really there's no reason you and him should have contact with each other but he treated it differently and still kept in contact..
2007-01-30 13:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship
2007-01-30 13:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think he just wants sex. if he did then he could have asked you before or after the movies. maybe he is trying to see if he still loves you. checking if the spark is still there.
2007-01-30 13:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he definitely just wants sex. Go find yourself someone better as a friend.
2007-01-30 13:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by Namaste 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
You're wasting your time. You obviously don't share the same values as he does.
2007-01-30 13:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you, but most guys just want sex.
2007-01-30 13:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Offer him sex if he says yes you have your answer. Its that simple.
2007-01-30 13:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋