I am having a relationship for last 2 years.When I met him first time, he hugged and kissed me,and said he liked me.I thought he likes me and ask for marriage.As it was an arranged marriage proposal.We have been talking 24/7 before that.But he said no a girl shd never say that and he doesn't see his wife in me.Then I stopped calling him,but then he kept calling me like as usual 24/7.I thought may be he likes me and want him to tell it from his side after knowing me a little more.Then we dated so many times,we stay together when we met.At times he said no to me and I would say I will do everything which he needs.2yrs went.Yesterday I asked for marriage,he said I trapped him,I forced him.He admits no one can love that much but he wil not marry me.I found he talked to someone else also.When I found that he said it was not imp to tell me and he is still with me.And y'day when I said that he told me once he is with me,he said I am lying.he never commited to me and cut the phn.what shd I do?
2007-01-30 13:01:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to ask him what he is thinking because that sounds confusing to me. only he can tell you what he wants and what hes thinkning because it is his mind and his mind alone. i hope you make it through this alright take care.
2007-01-30 13:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While this guy might enjoy spending time with you it seems as if he is definitely not interested in spending the rest of his life with you. You provide for his pleasure, but only temporarily.
Sit down and have a serious conversation with your boyfriend and ask him if he plans to maintain a committed relationship with you or if he has other desires for the future. Since this involves your life you have a right to know exactly what he's thinking and feeling concerning this important issue. There are some things that only your boyfriend can clarify for you at this point, so speak up ASAP.
I sure hope I'm wrong but I truly believe you will soon become a thing of the past with this guy.
2007-01-30 13:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has already made it clear that he doesn't want to marry you. I'm sure that hurts, but it is his choice. He obviously doesn't know how lucky he is to have someone who loves him as much as you do, and after all this time it isn't likely that he will. He is taking advantage of you, because he knows that you will do anything for him. He thinks that he can be with other women and still have you, because you keep going back to him. It may not be what you want to hear, but you need to let him go. You WILL find someone someday who will love you the way you deserve. You sound like a wonderful, caring woman, don't waste your time on this man!!
2007-01-30 13:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by A.J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey the only thing I can tell you if you dont already know.
Is to be a reg. on yahoo answers and become educated.
2007-01-30 13:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the deal with you I would love to see you and talk and see what I can be to you I love you and have been waiting a long time to see you.
2007-01-30 13:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOH honn you dont need that i think you should end it. It will be hard if you love him but by the sounds of it he dont fell the same as you do...
2007-01-30 13:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me, like he is just using you and doesn't want to be committed to you. Wants his cake and to eat it too! Dump him and find someone who really cares.
2007-01-30 13:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by oklahoma_whistle_britches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it. He said he's not going to marry you. It's over.
2007-01-30 13:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him hes a loser and hes a lier and cheater you'll find someone new
2007-01-30 13:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him
2007-01-30 13:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋