I have a boyfriend and i think he's cheating on me whats a way to find out? also he's 33 and has 3 kids already each with different women thats before we started dating.i'm 24 do you think the age difference is wrong? I Really love him and i tell him that i do but he just shrugs it off he wont even have sex with me any more.. I dont know maybe i am just paranoid. H e hasnt broken up with me yet but i think he will i dont want to lose him please please help me by telling me what i should do ... Hes the best friend and best guy to me in the world ever .. i love him so much i just wanna be with him forever its a really strong love stronger than words can say .. i just need him to say he loves me to ... i need everyones help with this anything you all say will be worth alot to me thanks so much and i look foward to recieving your answers i hope this works i guess wee'll see untill then i'll keep my fingers crossed thanks again... Kelsei
2007-01-30 12:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by Kelsie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you "need him to love [you]", then it's not a relationship of equals who trust and support each other; you're just afraid of being lonely and have a lack of confidence.
If he's the "best guy to [you] in the world ever", yet you don't trust him to be faithful to you, then either you have an unrealistic view of his behavior (likely) or you haven't been treated very well by other men (also likely.)
In short: you're obsessed with this man. Seriously consider getting a bit of professional help to get your emotions and attachments under control. Then either he'll still live up to your expectations, but it will be a stable and long-term thing, or you'll see that he's not all he's cracked up to be.
2007-01-30 12:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are being too clingy.... Guys tend to lose interest if a girl is too stuck on them. If he has 3 children by 3 different babies moms then he definitely isn't one to stick around too long in one spot. He's an alley cat. Wake up before he gets you pregnant. You also don't need to involve yourself with anyone who has extra baggage. His having 3 kids will take him away from you more often than not. If he is responsible for them then you will also have to share him with them and anything else that their moms require for him to see his kids. Also, his children can be pitted against you if any of the moms feel resentment towards you. Find yourself someone who is closer to your age,with no extra baggage. Good luck.
2007-01-30 12:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by MariClaude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. i ought to take the quick street because i'm aggravating to confirm him. 2. 10 purple to signify our love and10 white to signify the purity of it. 3. i should be well mannered and say that i receives him myself. 4. i ought to leave one among each and each on the mattress and something else i ought to install a vase via the window. 5. he's asleep so i'm transferring into mattress with him and snuggle up next to him and gently kiss him to wake him. he's pleasantly shocked. 6. I take the lengthy way residing house so as that i will savour the guidelines we made the evening before.
2016-12-03 06:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have premarital sex. i suggest you take some time to yourself and go read a bible or at least chicken soup for the soul. if he loved you he would say it. the age difference is wrong, even in today's society. find someone at your age and maturity level.
2007-01-30 12:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by missycowrocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck, 3 kids from different women? That's a sign you need to take for what it is. LOOSER!!!He isn't in to you. Forget him now or he will make your life hell. Sounds like your not hearing his actions ... to me, he's saying "We are already broke up.
2007-01-30 12:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u think he is cheaten he juss might be...and u dont need that...and he definitly does have the same fellings for u as u have 4 him...and thats not rite...i think u should juss get out of this realtionship...cuz his juss gona keep hurting u....hope this helps...good luck...
2007-01-30 12:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋