this guy at my church is always around. We've bumped into each other 3 times at least at the door. And one time I went to a wedding with a "How to get married book" in my hand, and he was there as a cantor for the wedding! And then I was with my mom and she was driving and dropped me off, and he was in a Uhaul van! I also saw him in a restaurant on Christmas Eve and honest to God, I looked at him and he looked at me, and it was like a physical attraction or pull.
But I am stubborn and say this is all baloney that I am infatuated, or it's lust.
Your thoughts? Is This Fate From God or what?
No. I've never talked to him. I think he is a jerk in how he treats others.
And yes, my friends keep trying to set me up with him, but he never comes forward or says anything. I believe if a guy likes a girl even a little he has to come forward.
2007-01-30 12:22:45 · 9 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You can be attracted to anyone - but it means nothing. I've been physically attracted to someone only a few times in my life, and they were definitely not the right kind of people. Your observation of how he treats people is key. Attraction can't take precendence over character. And you're right, the guy should always make the move, by asking your father, or spiritual father for permission.
My guess is that someone is just trying to distract you from your mission in life today. Don't worry about the future, a husband, all that. Run hard after God and at some point you'll look over, and your husband will be matching you stride for stride. Don't bother wasting energy looking for him. When the time is right, God will bring him.
2007-01-30 12:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hmm I think you may have something really special there. I mean the How to get married book, the Uhaul, looking at each other. It truly sounds like a romance right out of Hollywood. You are so lucky!!! And who cares if he's a total jerk! He's YOUR jerk. Best Wishes to you both.
2007-01-30 20:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you believe he is a jerk in the way he treats others, then why would you want him to treat you that way?
Face reality. You could never be happy with him. Move on.
2007-01-30 20:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by scifiguy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut instinct. If he is truly a jerk, I doubt that God would be purposely putting him in your life. Or maybe he's stalking you.... jk, but maybe he's changing or something, getting nicer... I don't know him, so I can't really judge.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-30 20:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm banned from a legally recognized relationship but morons are free to breed.
2007-01-30 20:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by God 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
keep praying. If he is a jerk let him go.
2007-01-30 20:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're being stalked.
2007-01-30 20:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe they let heterosexuals marry so easily. It really is just insulting to homosexuals everywhere.
2007-01-30 20:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
why Pray if you are just going to explain away any possible sign of intervention?
2007-01-30 20:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋