I really like this girl, but i am a shy guy. I want to ask her out but shes always near friends, popular kind of girl, it seems like. She is in a few of my classes. What should i do? Thanks
2007-01-30 12:22:07 · 24 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How should i start to talk to her? Thats my problem. How should i approach her?
2007-01-30 12:30:19 · update #1
I dont want to ask her out ASAP, but simply talk to her, thats what i am having trouble with, she is in 2 of my classes.
2007-01-30 12:31:45 · update #2
shes also popular and i am not like that. i have a good personality and all.
2007-01-30 12:33:15 · update #3
be brave, just ask her. she might be waiting for you too.
2007-01-30 12:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by kenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what anyone says, while still in middle or in high school, NEVER just go up to someone you have NEVER spoken to in your entire exsitence and ask them out.You have to get to know her first. Cuz she could be someone your really not feeling. So smince shes in some of your classes, ask her about the homework if you pass her in the hallway, or if your in class and your able to walk around, walk over to her group and ask them what there working on, and walk away. Make sure your sitting and talking to some other people though, or it will just seem weird. If your not able to walk around, then gives her an occasional glance and look at the bridge of her nose. And also if you see her in the halls or sitting at a table. Ask her how was her day, we LOVE when guys take an interest in us. It will give you the oppurtunity to get acquantited with her. After asking her you could say thats good, or i hope its get better than walk away, and dont look back.
2007-01-30 20:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Nicky! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that more guys had taken that step when I was that age - they were always too scared....I know that at that age I probably would have reacted best to something simple at first like just hey what was that about in class etc and worked up to something after a few days because nothing is worse than just out of nowhere being asked out - it takes you too much by surprise but if she kinda gets the hint first she'll have time to think about it before you even ask.
2007-01-30 20:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i was in the exact same situation. Ill tell you what i did and how it worked out then ill tell you what i think you should do, but remember, its up to you
Ok, i liked this girl and i knew her for mabey a month, we never talked and I sent her a valentines day card and she flew the other way.
You need to remember that she might not be your type or she might not be yours, both parties need to go along to date. What i would recommend is getting to know her, flirting mabey a little, then try and get on a deeper level of friendship, if all goes well, then i would ask her out.
2007-01-30 20:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by kanddstultz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you haven't talked to her yet, you probably don't know if you like her. She could be a lot different than you think. Start talking to her, get to know her. Talk to her about school, the classes you have together, or maybe ever her. Once you get to know her better you'll be more confident. Never ask out a stranger...it's weird. Good luck!
2007-01-30 20:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't just walk up, a complete stranger, and ask her out, well actually, if I remember high school correctly, that may work.
Get to know her as a friend, eat lunch together with other friends, or go to school events together.
Once she knows who you are out of the mass of dudes, ask her if she likes you.
Believe, me, high school is the best place to learn how to meet girls, and get over your shyness, when you get out in the world, and you want to talk to an adult woman, the things you learn in high school will help you out.
Shyness is just a lack of experience with talking to people, so start talking to people, and you will learn.
Good Luck!
2007-01-30 20:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont wrry about it every guy is kind of shy when they ask a girl out. I dont know why but almost every guy gets nervous i mean its just natural. but jus talk to her in your classes u have to make a move, i mean just say hi and try to start a conversation u never know to wht it may lead.
2007-01-30 20:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Nagasaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be intmadated by her friends just start talking 2 her more and more each day till you feel confedent and ask her out
2007-01-30 20:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by doggygm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her a bit more. Get to know her and get social and ban your shy-guy-ness. Just be yourself and relax. Then, you can just slip in between your conversation and ask her out. Simple as that =)
2007-01-30 20:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Christina l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, Take the bull by the horns and ask her, the least she could say is NO, and then you will know instead of being miserable. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-30 20:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u no what hurts?
when you like her and you know she likes you but you cant even say hi to her
that just sucks and it gives you that feeling like ur a wuss and cant do anything right...
well friends will keep urging you and say like.. what's there to loose? whats the worst thing? rejection? dude grow up get a life and be a man... bro grow up. just go up to her and say hi
and NONE of this will ever do anything to force you to say anything. but you got it easy. shes in your class. tell one of your friends to force you to go up to her like.. literally push you up to her. seriously. :/
but the best way is to get her to talk to you first as it seems like you're the shy one not her :) good luck
2007-01-30 20:32:25 · answer #11 · answered by obvlious56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋