should i say yes?

Question

ok my ex is asking me back out and well i don't know if i wanna get back w/ him if i do it would be the 3rd time getting w/ him
and also he has never cheated on me for all I know so should I get back w/ him?

I broke up with him when i was 13 and then we got back together when I was 16 and he broke up with me cuz he wanted sum time to think and I thought it was completely over and the reason I broke up with him the first time was becuz I wanted to date another guy

Answer 1

Why? and Why? are you continually going back to your ex? Think about what it is that's attracting you to him? You need to understand the reasons, so you can see if your making the right choices. If you can answer truthfully, then you are a step closer to the right decision. If he never cheated on you, and is a good guy, maybe you just had some fights, and needed space. But if he did some awful things to you, I would suggest you just move on. This seems like you are in a game where you are always gonna lose. Think seriously about what you want and need from a guy, before going back to the old one. This person will never change his spots, or learn new tricks. Unless he seriously wants to, and does it on his own. Really, us women can't change a man, he must want to do it for himself, and for us, if he really loves us. Test him out, and see if he really loves you, or just misses you, and is playing games.

Answer 2

honey no one can answer that question for u but yourself. srry that i'm being so mean but it's the truth and the reason is because u have to know how u feel about him if u love him and u said that he has never cheated on u then yes u should go back with him. but it's up to you to decide it u want to be with him or not and how u feeels about him. hope this helps u and hope u make the right decision

Answer 3

They do say third times a charm. If the first 2 times you broke up were for the same reason, expect the third to be the same as well. good luck.

Answer 4

only you can make that decision but if you don't know then probably not if you wanted to be with him you would have not doubts Good luck just remember people break up for a reason and if it's happened this many times then probably should not be together give it time maybe a few yrs and if it's meant to be it will happen then.

Answer 5

Been there done that? Duh, No way, cut him out, he will just find another reason to leave you again. Seems to me, he likes you hangin on the line waiting for him. I would say Sorry but I just don't see it happening again. I think it would be best if we both just move on. Then, go get yourself a new hottie to hang with. He is not the only guy looking to get with you ya know?
Tracylyn S

Answer 6

If you didn't care enough to stay together the first 2 times what would be different this time?

Answer 7

I suppose if you feel you can't do any better, getting back once again with the guy who keeps dumping you is probably the best you think you'll get in life.

Answer 8

the definition of insanity is: doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

If you keep on doing what youre doing, youll keep getting what youre getting.

think about that before you make a decision

Answer 9

well if u dont have a current bf then u should probaly go with him
if he's never cheated u...then y did u break up?
my answer is YES!!!!!!

Answer 10

those on and off relationships usually end up in a definite off. if your not so sure its because you dont really want to. so forget about him and move on.