I have a boyfriend, and we huge communication problems. In that sense, our relationship is pretty much going downhill. He and I go to different High Schools, and I think I'm beginning to like someone else. My friend is also accusing me of cheating, but I'm not. I keep to myself. What should I do?
2007-01-30 12:11:56 · 12 answers · asked by music_lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it me?
2007-01-30 12:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'd say save the drama for later in life. For now you're only in high school and you should be having FUN. Worrying about communication issues or problems with trust is not worth the effort at that age. Go with what makes you happy. If the current guy isn't making you happy now, you might be able to pick back up with him *much* later on when you're both ready to be more serious.
2007-01-30 20:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by CoolFin69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your in high school i have to believe this is new to you understand if your taking on the responsibility of a relationship learn now you have a choice rather you always have a choice if for any reason you decide he's not the one for you you have the right to have a change of heart without feeling bad afterward's take the necessary steps to talk with him if he doesn't listen then back away from him stop accepting call's stop seeing him stand up for your self you'll appreciate your action in the long run as well
2007-01-30 20:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Toni H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your boyfriend go, communication is like the best thing to have in a relationship. Go for the new guy.
2007-01-30 20:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by lovelylittlelady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like someone else, but dont like your bf so much, then you need to break up first. Dont be a cheater.And dont immediately go to the boy you like after you break up. Wait a month or so.
2007-01-30 20:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him things aren't going anywhere because don't spend much of your time together. Tell him it's better to break it off and tell your friend to think what she wants, because you know you're not cheating on him.
2007-01-30 20:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me like whether you really like this other guy or not, your relationship with your bf will eventually end. why? cus you say so. you're like "the relationship with my bf is going downhill and i just like this other guy". if you really care about your bf try and work it out at least and then you can give up if theres just no hope and try it with this other guy.
2007-01-30 20:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think if he is the kind of guy you would marry. Those are the kind of guys you should date. Don't just date whatever guy is nearest. With that in mind, determine if you really want to be with the current bf (boy "a" if you will), & think if boy "b" meets your newly-thought-out criteria.
2007-01-30 20:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful disaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least treat your boyfriend with respect. If you're going to cheat on him...break up with him.
It sounds to me like you're about ready to end it with him anyway. Do it, and move on. Life is short, and you deserve to be happy.
2007-01-30 20:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,1. You should talk to him,Before you break up with him.
2007-01-30 20:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Awesome Maddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make shure that your positive that u don't like himand if your shure then dump him slowly hpw couldn't tell you. just remember if u dump him your not going to win him back.
2007-01-30 20:16:10 · answer #11 · answered by tiffany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋