there is this guy who at my school who asked me to do something and i like him so i said yes. but in school its awkword because im really shy and i dont no what to say to him or how to make it less awkword. im afraid he might lose interest in me and move on. any advice?
2007-01-30 12:05:19 · 8 answers · asked by sarah e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he asked me to hang out nothing else...
2007-01-30 12:14:11 · update #1
first of all he know you are shy...If it is something not bad it is ok.Take it slow and one step at a time. Good luck...think things out before you do it..Good luck
2007-01-30 12:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again no age is mentioned--and it is very important--so I will guess you are young. What you mention about shyness is common in millions of young people---it is a matter of self confidence, maturity, and social grace. All these things will become a part of you as time goes on---the more you go out and mingle, the more at ease you will be. These people your age won't bite you ---and you are not a bit different than them---so stand tall, go with your friend, have fun, smile and then go home,---it is as easy as that. Now don't feel that you have to accept an invitation if it doesn't sound like it will be straight up and honorable fun---YOU CAN SAY NO---don't say or do anything because you want to avoid hurting someone. And do not worry about someone not liking you if you choose not to do something--that is silly and certainly not mature----get with it---pick and choose wisely who you hang with and what you do,.....be safe....have fun...good luck
2007-01-30 20:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked you, so he's interested. If you're shy, and he's interested, then your being shy isn't going to spoil anything -- in fact, it might be something he appreciates and finds attractive. Not every guy wants a tough-talking ball of assertive energy for a playmate.
So go on the date, and be yourself; whether it works out or not, it's better to be yourself anyway, shy or not. Besides, everyone's a bit shy at first, and you may be surprised at your own confidence once you find some common ground.
2007-01-30 20:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the thing he asked you to do of a sexual nature?
If it is, i have THE SAME EXACT PROBLEM.
Only thing is, Ive stopped being shy.
You should talk to him about it and explain that you feel really awkward around him. If you like him talk to him more, he wont lose interest in you dont worry.
I really dont know how to give you any other further advice since you havent explained what it is he has asked you to do.
Good luck!
2007-01-30 20:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you should never do anything you are uncomfortable doing. second, a guy you like asked you to do something, was it something that would hurt someone else or make them uncomfortable? if so tell him to take care of his own dirty business. if not, you need to become more confident in yourself and your abilities. stay away from him if he is out to make you look foolish. did he talk to you with interest before he asked you to do this. if not stay away from him.
2007-01-30 20:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget awkword, he is in love with u and u are in love with him
just dont do it in school--go to a park
2007-01-30 20:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just don't do what i did and do nothing. send him notes during class little jokes if your bored or not. tell him you love him when you have to part.
2007-01-30 20:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you gotta tell us what was it that he asked you to do???
2007-01-30 20:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋