have had sex with my bf 10 times. We are 16 and i know you are thinking we are two young but we love each other very much and have been together for almost 2 yrs. We usually do it with my mom upstairs so i was thinking it might hrt cuz i am tense and worried that she will catch us. Do you think it still hurts because I am tense? Please don't givev me a hard time about be 16.
2007-01-30 12:01:34 · 19 answers · asked by luvmyboy 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
You should not have sex at your age unless your married every female in my family got married at your age. If he Care's abut you he will ask you if your not ready for marriage then by far you are not ready for sex and you need to find alternate methods of releasing the ergs and it also docent look good that your so young.
2007-01-30 12:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by rocko33543 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that probably has alot to do with it. I am wondering why you don't find a more private area to make love with your boyfriend, are you looking to get caught? Are you using safe sex practices and are you taking birth control to prevent a baby? Do you really think that you can find and be so in love at such a young age? The reason I ask isn't to piss you off or say you are too young. I say this because I was a teenage mother, and I too thought I was "in love" and we knew what we were doing. Obviously we didn't or we wouldn't have gotten pregnant. Also, that first "love", you will replace him many times over before you are twenty five, and you will have way more fun if you don't put so much emphasis on sex and just enjoy being with eachother. Also, you make comment about your age alot for not wanting to hear about having sex at a young age, I think you are having sex to please your boyfriend and since you aren't fully into it and not receiving pleasure as you should, plus your mom upstairs it's no wonder it hurts. I don't know any 16 year old boys that know how to make love, maybe you need to teach your boyfriend what you enjoy to make your love making more comfortable. Good luck.
2007-01-30 20:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are quite a few reasons why. One maybe that he is too big for you, especially if you were a virgin.Another maybe that you are tense and the fear of your mom catching you. Or maybe you are not lubricated enough, or possible you are not aroused. You should try to find a place were you can relax, and enjoy the experience. If the pain is still there it may be a medical problem that you need to discus with a professional, such as your Doctor or health nurse at the health department. And remenber to ALWAYS use protection
2007-01-30 20:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Laurie love 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I agree 16 is too young, but doing it with your Mom upstairs? PLEASE!!
Yes, being tense could very well attribute to the pain, however, some girls need help with lubrication, so you may want to add a little. My advice is, if you must have sex, hopefully you are using protection, and use a lubricated condom with some ky jelly.
2007-01-30 20:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Gargirl™® 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
IF he really loved you he would stop having sex with you until you wre able to go to a dr. would b able to tell you what's going on! Loves doesn't consist of having sex. and love should not be pain ful in any way... go to a teen clinic it doesn't soudn good that you are having pain. May be he was sleepin garound and gave you some kind of infection, not necessarily an std. Careful!
2007-01-30 21:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jeenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partly because you are tense and I think that the two of you are in such a hurry, there isn't enough foreplay and you are not properly lubricated. I will not harp on the age thing but find a place where you can relax and take your time and I think you will find it very pleasureable.
2007-01-30 20:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I do think you are too young, but sincerely pray you are practicing safe sex.
It may be painful because u are tense, or you may need some extra lubrication.
If you are going to continue having sex, find a private place, and most of all practice SAFE sex
2007-01-30 20:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by moeeeeus 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I won't give you a hard time because you already know you wrong and especially for doing that in your mom's house but I'm sure that it hurts because you're not letting those muscles relax because of fear and that's why you probably shouldn't be doing it but that's just my opinion and besides you know right from wrong.
2007-01-30 20:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well,
This would depend on the size of your boyfreind's penis and the fact that you havent had sex very many times. Eventually the pain will go away.
2007-01-30 20:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by devinroberts_13 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2007-01-30 20:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by ^..^fox~~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋