this guy at my church is always around. We've bumped into each other 3 times at least at the door. And one time I went to a wedding with a "How to get married book" in my hand, and he was there as a cantor for the wedding! And then I was with my mom and she was driving and dropped me off, and he was in a Uhaul van! I also saw him in a restaurant on Christmas Eve and honest to God, I looked at him and he looked at me, and it was like a physical attraction or pull.
But I am stubborn and say this is all baloney that I am infatuated.
Your thoughts. And by the way can't stand him.
2007-01-30 12:01:30 · 16 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No. I've never talked to him. I think he is a jerk in how he treats others.
2007-01-30 12:09:05 · update #1
And yes, my friends keep trying to set me up with him, but he never comes forward or says anything. I believe if a guy likes a girl even a little he has to come forward.
2007-01-30 12:12:10 · update #2
It is all a goofy coincidental thing. Believe me when you meet who you are supposed to be married to you will just know it. You will see yourself spending your life with him good times and bad times too.
You cant stand someone and you think he is a sign from God that you will be married. If you are destined to marry soemone that you can't stand, I would pray for other things instead. Being happy is more important.
2007-01-30 12:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, in response to this: "And yes, my friends keep trying to set me up with him, but he never comes forward or says anything. I believe if a guy likes a girl even a little he has to come forward." ... It's the 20th century hun... Don't expect it to be the guys responsiblity to "come forward" as you say.
Second of all, this is just coincidence. You're making it seem grander in the scheme of things by imagining that its anything but coincidence that you see him.
You can't stand a guy you've never even talked to? But you feel a physical attraction to him? You're just confusing yourself and this is seriously a 12-year-old girl's day dreaming to me.
2007-01-30 21:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by kate 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? You sound very young. Also, why did you attend a wedding with a book? Did you read during the ceremony?
Sounds like coincidence.
2007-01-31 15:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stand him? Thats perfect. Let me explain. I am getting married in April and I absolutely could not stand my fiance. We started talking (Ok. I decided to be civil towards him) and we got to be great friends. He is my best friend and I could not be any happier. Have you given any thought to maybe inviting him to dinner or a movie. The Lord works in mysterious ways.
2007-01-30 20:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's a sign, a GOD sign maybe even - you just never know, I mean, that many times to run into him, seems like it's supposed to be, and if you give him a chance, you might find he's not that bad at all.
2007-01-30 20:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by are_see_bee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like it is just a series of odd coincidences.. You may just be thinking into it too much. Best of luck finding that someone!
2007-01-30 20:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by NoTurningBackNow 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, it sounds like you are a 12 year old girl with a crush.
2007-01-30 20:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you don't like how he treats people, then why are you dwelling on it? ignore it.
p.s.- why did you go to a wedding with that book? seems a little odd. are you "fishing" for someone?
2007-01-30 20:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be married because it seems like your in love.
2007-01-30 20:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it is FATE......chemistry will bring u two together.
Cupid strikes arrows in mysterious places.
2007-01-30 20:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋