There's this guy that's recently started talking to me online and even though no one has told me, I've gotten some pretty big hints from him and his friends that he likes me. I don't really talk to him in school at all. He's a nice guy and I have no problem with him...
...but I have a boyfriend! The guy that talks to me online says all this nice, hinting stuff that shows he likes me and I never know how to respond.
I don't want to blurt out I have a boyfriend, because that could be cruel, and if by any chance he really doesn't like me, I don't want to sound stupid. I also don't want to wait too long in case he asks me out and I really don't want to string him along. Seriously need help.
What should I do?
2007-01-30 11:58:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*First, I never said I liked the attention from this guy and no where did I say that I was trying to start a new relationship with someone else.
Please read my question before answering.
2007-01-30 12:28:58 · update #1
hmmm well i totally understand what you mean about the... "dont' want to sound stupid" but i think it'd be even worse to have him ask you out and then for you to hurt him... hmm u say you talk online? well maybe u could casually mention something about ur boyfriend.. .like if your talking about weekend plans... you could just bring him in there "oh i'm going out with my boyfriend" etc etc, know what i mean? so maybe you dont' have to blurt it out...but just be subtle and maybe the guy will get the hint! haha good luck with this!
2007-01-30 12:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you've been talking to this guy on-line.... have you told your boyfriend you're doing this??
"I don't want to blurt out I have a boyfriend, because that could be cruel," ....... and dishonest on your part??
You like the attention from this new guy..... but you don't have the guts to be honest with him.
And if he's attractive to you, do you have the confidence to break off with your boyfriend to start a relationship with the new guy? Why aren't you willing to take the risk?
2007-01-30 12:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1ST. HOW IS THE FIRST RELATIONSHIP GOING AND 2ND IS HE TREATING YOU RIGHT AND RESPECT YOU FOR BEING YOU ? NOW THIS GUY ON LINE , I DON'T THINK IT WOULDN'T HURT TO HAVE A NEW FREIND AND GET TO KNOW HIM
2007-01-30 12:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋