My boyfriend and I, along with a lot of friends were playing a version of spin the bottle...we're all really really good friends, but still we were just kissing on the cheek, and we all knew it didn't mean anything. So I kissed one of my guy friends on the cheek (with my boyfriend there). Does this count as cheating or something that is strictly forbidden in relationships?
2007-01-30 11:51:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it does not, its ok to kiss on the cheek
2007-01-30 11:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Orlinda K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kiss on the cheek you shared was during a shared game with many friends there...including your boyfriend. That does not sound like 'cheating' to me as it does not sound that your 'heart was cheating' while sharing that playful game kiss.
A kiss can on the cheek can be 'cheating' when the heart of the one kissing the other on the cheek desires to want to do more. I've experienced, on occasion, a married man ' just ' kissing me on the cheek and through the after look in their eyes towards me I could tell they would hope I might give the 'green light' for them to share more. And, it turned out not to be just my imagination as those times it was conveyed that more was desired. I don't go near a man in a committed relationship and expressed that.
A simple kiss on the cheek may or not be in the realm of ' cheating '. Your situation does not sound to be cheating as your heart was still exclusively true only to your boyfriend and not to the guy in the game.
2007-01-30 15:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell No it is not cheating unless you and the other person were alone in a room somewhere. And more then that happened. Your partner was there, its all good.
People kiss on the cheek to say hello, my group of friend do it all the time. I kiss the girls on the cheek, its like shaking hands with the guys.
2007-01-30 12:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by acurarockz@rogers.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in a relationship it depends on the partner...what he or she thinks. The biggest problem with some guys...is that a kiss on the cheek isn't just a kiss on the cheek to them..so be careful there. So i would just ask your partner the question. I know my g/f would kill me had I ever done that (or got kissed on the cheek by a girl she didn't know).
2007-01-30 11:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by mandasrooster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were taken, you shouldn't have been playing spin the bottle at all but answer me one thing: Was he playing too? If so, then no, this would not be considered cheating or anything bad because he would've been willing to do the same thing had the bottle landed on another girl. If he wasn't playing, though, then yes, I would consider that cheating... If he had the common sense not to play for your sake, then you should've done the same.
2007-01-30 11:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Makenzie. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss on the cheek isn't dishonest - it really is the embody it really is. on account that embracing and hugging contain body contact this personalised effect should be reserved for contributors of your relatives, girlfriends, or your major different. Europeans are better bodily demonstrative than their American opposite numbers yet i have not in any respect considered opposite sex embraces between acquantances because it really is considered rude to the contact someone's body in this kind except ... as reported above. the classic kiss on the cheek, as you lean ahead to steer away from body contact, is the perfect thanks to greet someone you understand properly. have you ever considered the prospect that your doing this can reason the female friend of your acquaintance to grow to be jealous or offended with him, or with you?
2016-12-03 06:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My current girlfriend's ex broke up with her for doin this. But he was the jealous type.
It really all depends on YOUR intentions. If it was harmless fun then thats all it is. If u ment sumthing else though...
In my opinion anything can be considered a form of cheating.. if ur not 100% devoted to ur bf/gf thru any action then that is a form of cheating imo.
2007-01-30 12:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a kiss on the cheek is friendship kiss, and besides your boyfriend is there, so if he doesn't say anything, don't worry about it.
2007-01-30 11:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry thats not cheating. unless you did some incredibly flirty cheek kiss, (which still isnt cheating) but it can give off all the wrong signals and cause misinterpretetions.
2007-01-30 11:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you all fully have the same understanding of a friendship, and I always give my close friends hugs and kiss on the cheek but then again I am Italian and we all do that
2007-01-30 12:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Pope does it all the time. In many cultures it is required in meeting and greeting people -- even strangers.
As long as it's not the Mafia "kiss of death" it's perfectly OK
2007-01-30 11:57:24 · answer #11 · answered by Diogenes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋