My pelvic bones seem too tight. I can put up tto 3 fingers in lenght wise but not width wise. Pls help as it is distressing. Did I miss out on some puberty hormones or what?
2007-01-30 11:38:38 · 23 answers · asked by imal jan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry sweetie. I can help. I had the same problem. Have you ever went to a doctor to had a papsmere done? If you haven't, don't be scared, but you need to go. They may find that your area is too small and, in my case, I had things to do to make the hole larger. In time your vigina hole will get larger. I know this may sound sick to everyone, but believe it or not this can happen. Good luck.
2007-01-30 11:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by Frogger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a physical problem or you are tensing up.Whatever you do dont force it and get hurt.You may want to see a doctor and get checked out.Later in life you may not be able to have children IF there is a problem.Wish I could help more but there are sooooooo many variables.
2007-01-30 11:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH? I think it could be a few things.
1. You need to relax
2. He needs to be tender
3. You need to be well lubricated. By yourself or with something in a tube.
It is very normal for many girls to have this difficulty. But once you figure out what it takes to enjoy the whole experience, it will come much easier.
2007-01-30 11:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need some lotion when you have sex. SOmetimes you don't get wet enough and it hard for a guy to penetrate you. but next time use a lotion called K-Y jelly the one which heats up the the touch, or want to chat more IM me anytime
2007-01-30 11:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read it only if you are over 18.
You have to be properly aroused before penetration. Let him try a much longer foreplay, for 20-30 minutes. Let him massage your area. Only when he finds out that the area is well lubricated, then only he should try penetration
2007-01-30 15:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u a virgin, u just need 2 be broken in get through the pain, i wish i was that small, thats a good thing, try a lubricant, or getting turned on more.
2007-01-30 11:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by lovely me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We women all felt lke that our first times. You are definitely not too small, probably just not ready. Relax all your muscles, and when he tells u not to move backwards, dont move backwards. It took us 45 mins to finnally bust my cherry. LOL
2007-01-30 11:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I am not... qualified... to answer this, don't worry about it! Your body will expand and contract with force after time, so frequent 'practice' with yourself or a toy will expand you. It may take time, but it will happen!
2007-01-30 11:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by Muad'Dib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! you just need to use vibrartors and some lube a good place to get these items is from adamneve.com good place to buy because it is discrete
2007-01-30 11:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by MSG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really know how to answer this question. but it will have something to do with ur age and his size i would guess. all i can say is go to the doctor
2007-01-30 11:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by ardmore chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋