Yeah he's totally not hot, but he's not nerdy either. I'm going out with him cuz he's really nice!!! My friends are like,"Ewww, ewww, ewwwwwwww! I cant BELIEVE you are going out w/ him!"
2007-01-30 11:37:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like him and hes nice then thats all that matters, havn't you ever heard the song sk8er boi? you don't want to end up not dating someone just because your friends don't like him and then having him end up famous.
2007-01-30 11:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats your question? Do you wanna know what we think about what your friends say?
Well i will tell ya, it doesnt matter what they think. It matters what you think. They are not the ones who have seen beyond the hot/nerdy side. Sounds like your friends are rather shallow in the fact that they base their likes upon looks alone. Think about it.....if you ended up loving this hunky guy......he tragically gets into a car accident that disfigures him (God forbid), but say hypethetically it happens......does this make you not love him anymore? No. The simple truth is....even though the outside is what first attracted you, the inside is what will make you stick around or not.
Give this a shot. You cant lose when you look at someone from the inside first.
And the inside is what makes the outside so appealing.
Good for you for not being shallow. Good luck.
2007-01-30 11:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you attracted to him? Because if not, you're headed for trouble. People always slam girls for not giving "nice guys" a chance, but I don't think that's entirely fair. No one expects a guy to give a "nice girl" a chance if he doesn't find her attractive.
You absolutely must be attracted to the person -- otherwise, nice is simply not enough. Trust me, I've found myself in a relationship with someone who couldn't be kinder or more gracious -- but I'm not very attracted to him. I thought I should give him a chance -- and now we're having major problems in the bedroom.
If your friends don't like the way he looks, but he's got some winning combination that really turns you on, then you're golden. But if you agree with your friends, and he doesn't truly do it for you, I'd spare myself the heartache. I think you're going to have take a good look at what you really feel about him.
2007-01-30 11:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lilfilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So because your friends think he's "ew"... that makes hiim odd?
I don't get it. If you like someone, why does it matter what others think? And do you only go out with him because he's nice or is there other things that you like?
Don't lead him on.
Best of luck.
2007-01-30 11:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So? Who cares what your friends think. If their only problem is the physical aspect, then simply ignore them. Its the inside that counts. A lesson that you have apparently learned.
2007-01-30 11:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats cute. i dated someone like that, and all of my friends told me that i shouldn't be seeing him. but you have to do what you feel, and i made sure that my friends realized that this was my decision to make and not theirs.
2007-01-30 11:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by liliaceae_aletris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your decision if u like him than go with him and dont worry about what they say its ur man
2007-01-30 11:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by Orlinda K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋