So, I really like this guys and this is what he does....he bumps me in the hallway and when i look back at him he smiles at me. He goes to the library every time he knows i am there. He walks in front of me a lot, as if he wants me to notice him....a lot of people said these are signs that he likes me, and at time i am very POSITIVE also. But then at times i don't think he likes me at all because he hangs around a lot of girls(he's not gay). A lot of girls hug him and cling themselves to him but i don't. Should I? Also, we are in different grades. Is it really that possible for him to like me even though he has all these pretty girls around him.?? Like i said, at times i get so excited cause i think he likes me cause of all the signs he shows but at others, i am not so sure cause of all the girls he hangs out with.....please help me! What do you think??????
2007-01-30 11:28:39 · 54 answers · asked by sabrina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-30 11:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by therernonameleft 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The next time he bumps you or you happen to be around him. Strike up a conversation. " ask if hes seen a movie you might have seen recently or if he's going to an upcoming sporting event ect. Give him an open. If the convo goes well you might wanna toss out a we outta hang out some time or something. He might take your lead and bite first if you give him an open with starting up a convo. If not either way you'll have alot better idea where you stand after you talk with him. What's the WORST thing that could possibly happen? He says Gee I just wanna B friends. If that happens there are alot more guys out there. Good Luck.
2007-01-30 11:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as Death Cab for Cutie once said '...Fear is the heart of love...' and if you don't take chances you will never get anywhere in life. As a guy (Who is glad to admit he has been in a GREAT relationship for almost 9 months) I know that he is hugging and clinging to those other girls either because A.) they are his friends from a very long time ago or B.) He likes them too. Don't worry, Iliked other girls before I asked my girlfriend out, but I waited it out and finally worked out the nerves to ask her out. Just follow your heart and don't look back until the deeds done.
2007-01-30 11:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Muad'Dib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right. If you like this guy then ask him out. If he says yes then that's brilliant, if he says No then just smile and say Okay. It will hurt for awhile but keep that hurt private and put a brave face on it and move on. If you are mature enough to do this then you are mature enough for a BF, if you can't then you ain't. BTW YES he likes you so make a move or move on, worrying about and analyzing the signs wouldn't help, plus he'll think you don't like him and someone else with a bit of initiative and courage will move in, do you want that? Ask him out tomorrow Okay and post to tell us what happened.
2007-01-30 11:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, your in high school. He's playing games with you and he won't be the last guy to do it. You have 3 options, play his silly game back at him, get him without the girls around and give him your number, or forget about him and go for someone who more mature and doesn't play games. Ask yourself if you really like him or if this is a game to you too. If you do get him, will you like him as much or is it really about the excitment of catching him, the flirting, the curiosity. I've done this many times myself, I think I'm totally crazy about this guy who takes some time and effort to aquire, I get him then thats it, I'm over him and ready for a new conquest.
2007-01-30 11:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by princessforever1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful girlfriend. He sounds like a "player"! Check out his reputation at school, talk to some of the girls he "flirts with". Myself, I would take a BIG PASS on this one. He acts like the type that once he gets what he wants, he moves on, and he always has a "back-up". A good guy would show manners for one thing, and a good guy would not push you or accidentally on purpose "bump" into you. Remember girlfriend, you get what you allow to happen to you. Be smart, no intelligent girl would go for a "player".
2007-01-30 11:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does like you, but maybe doesn't know how to approach you. He has a lot of female friends, so you should make a move on him before one of his friends does. Don't hug on him and be overly affectionate, because he might think you're trying too hard. He seems impressed by you already, so don't stop being yourself. Maybe you can talk to him when you see him at the library. You could even suggest getting together sometime (to study, go to a movie, go to a sporting event, go to a concert, have dinner together, etc.). He might have a lot of female friends, but maybe he's shy around girls he actually likes (like you). Good luck.
2007-01-30 11:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People want what they can not have. If you throw yourself at him like the other girls are doing, guess what? He will think you are just like the rest of them. So yes, flirt with him. Yes let him know you are interested by looking at him and smiling, however do not hang all over him. Let him chase you, that's where the fun part is anyway. Women are so attractive when they are playing hard to get!
2007-01-30 11:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a guy in school, if he is popular with the girls, he will be that way till he has a reason not to be. This is where you can likely come in.
If he is flirting, then there is no question. If he acts strange sometimes, maybe it is because he is not sure if you like him.
This is where you flirt back, and in a major but respectful way....
Laugh, act concerned, smile, and make a funny face, make him laugh, tickle him, but most of all, it is a give and receive type of thing.
He might be testing to see if you really like him. Make him laugh!
That is how I used to meet girls.
Don't worry about all of his girls, if you get steady with him, he will most likely make you his only girl. THE WORST thing to do is not try.
2007-01-30 11:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, the same thing happened to me in high school. I totally liked this way popular guy, and he would flirt with me and hug me and stuff like that. I finally had one of my friends say to him, "So, Sommer likes you." After that he asked me out, and we ended up being bf/gf for a few months. The only thing that sucked was since he was really flirty and popular, all of the girls still flirted with him and hung on him even though he had a gf. I couldn't handle it, and that's why we broke up. But I would just go for it. Ask him to hang out sometime, or have one of your friends say something to him. You'll never know if you don't ask!!
2007-01-30 11:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Sommer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he likes you, but by giving those signs and flirtatious behavior is just enough to keep you on the back burner, as for a back up plan that way if he ever ran into you in the right situation he would have already laid down the ground work. it sounds like this guy can't get enough kinda girlfriends, unless you just want to be one of the many stay the hell away from him , If your that kind of person then just get a little closer i am sure you will be welcomed
2007-01-30 11:40:25 · answer #11 · answered by tryintohelp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋