Funny you should mention a tantrum at target.. I was at target with my then 4 year old daughter. She wanted a certain toy, I told her no, and she proceeded to throw herself down on the floor and scream. I picked her up and carried her all the way from the back of target to the front with her screaming and trying to get out of my arms and had to force her in her car seat and went straight home. Im surprised no one thought I was kidnapping her:) It was so embarrsing though.
Just because a child throws a tantrum in public doeant mean the parents are bad parents or shouldnt have children... they may handle a tantrum differently at home than in public but may be concerned about how people will precieve how they are handling the situation. Tantrums happen - but the best thing to do is remove the child and yourself from the situation not give in to and argue like the parent in your first example did.
2007-01-30 11:19:15
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answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6
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The worst tantrum I have ever seen is in an obvious place for screaming & crying kids: Wal*mart.
This boy screamed so much he was about 6 years old too. His mom was I guess trying to get him to try on a coat. I heard his mother frustratingly forcing him to behave. He was jumping up and down trying to get away. He did actually run out into the main walkway screaming and his mom chased him. I followed to see what would happen. He made it to the bedding dept where I saw his mother stopped him and spanked him. He sure was upset there. Then his mom pulled him by the arm back to the boys clothing. I could still hear him crying when I went to the checkout.
2007-01-30 11:21:28
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answered by Cuddly Lez 6
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that was a terrible thing for your mom to say! little kids have tantrums, and there is not always much you can do about it! for all your mom knows, that little girl might always be good, and she just happened to have a melt-down that day.
of course, proper parenting and discipline can stop tantrums quite effectively, or prevent them from ever happening at all (although most kids will have a few in their life, even with the best parenting!).
i did see a little boy once, he was probably 3, freak out in a grocery store because his mom wouldnt buy him fruit roll-ups... he was screaming and kicking, and he knocked all the boxes off the shelf. in the end, the mom just bought him some. so there is an example that your mother wouldn't like! you can bet that boy has tantrums a lot, if he is always getting what he wants out of it.
2007-01-30 11:21:29
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answered by Rebecca O 4
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I have seen more tantrums in Walmart than anywhere else.
The absolute best of all is from a video clip about condoms. This 3 or 4 year old boy has a tantrum (10 out of 10) in the grocery store. The clip is designed to be funny by the way.
I have the clip if anyone is interested.
2007-02-03 02:33:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Some children have tantrums, and some do not. I have been told they run in families, and have wondered if they may be an inherited trait. One of my girls had them, and the other one did not. Yes they throw themselves on the floor and stamp their feet and act unreasonably, and it is often because they cannot get something they want . There is no need to be embarrassed by it, but a good way to handle the tantrum ought to be found and shared with other parents What should I say or do when my child has a tantrum?
Avoid saying anything until your child has calmed himself down. Trying to talk to or reason with a child who is in the middle of a tantrum usually makes things worse. Comments meant to calm your child down like "do you want people to think you are a baby?" or "you are embarrassing me" increase your child's anger AND get in the way of letting your child learn how to calm down on her own.
The essence of self-calming is that children have to learn to do it themselves. Your major role is in deciding when they can have a chance to practice their calming skills. When your child starts screaming or getting mad, quickly evaluate the situation to see if it is a serious problem, such as an injury. If it is a simple problem, such as the blocks falling down, let your child try to handle it on his own.
Once you see that your child can quiet himself, it will be easier for you to stay out of the situation. Remember that a child's energy for a long tantrum almost always comes from the adult who is trying to help stop it. Without that extra attention your child's tantrum will stop escalating.
Of course some children may continue to have tantrums in spite of your best efforts to teach self-calming skills. If your child's tantrums seem full of rage, involve hurting others, or are only one of many behavior problems, please contact your health care provider during office hours for further help.
2007-01-30 12:12:48
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answered by pooterilgatto 7
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My daughter threw a tantrum during Communion, in front of the whole church.
She wanted something, I don't remember what. It was time to walk back to our seats. She pulled away from me and laid down on the floor, right in front of the altar and started kicking and screaming.
I started to walk away, thinking she would follow me, and she didn't. So I turned back, scooped her up, and walked out with her -- kicking and screaming.
It was awful.
By the way, she's 26 years old now. People are probably still talking about it, but she has grown into a lovely human being, with a son of her own.
2007-01-30 11:25:43
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answered by who me? 5
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i grew to become into taught in a Parenting type for habit situation babies that strolling away is superb.. yet no longer outdoors. and not in any respect slapping them around the face!! no longer in inner maximum or in public. I additionally do no longer believe spanking the two.. in the event that they have habit problems, then spanking can cause them to have faith they're allowed to hit to clean up their problems. now and lower back a swat or 2 may be what's mandatory in spite of the undeniable fact that it additionally has to in superb condition the crime. If the infant is a habit situation, i could advise the determine(s) get some education in this rely to benefit to regulate themselves as nicely as their babies. If I observed this in front of a mall, or everywhere, i could confront the mother and then touch government. If the infant is being slapped in the face in public... what are they getting at homestead??
2016-11-23 14:55:10
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answered by ? 4
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worst tantrum Ive ever seen was at the mall little girl about 4 or 5 wanted to go in to a toy store and her mother wouldn't take in...so the little girl throw herself on the floor and started to scream and shout.....when her mother went to pic her up the little one slapped her mother calling her a bit@h.....told her mom if you dint want to take me I'm gonna tell my daddy you were bad to me.....the mother took the little girl to the toy store and the littler girl acted like she was just fine..... it was like watching doctor Jekyll and Mr hide... it was scary and funny and bad all at the same time
2007-01-30 11:23:14
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answered by devoe442004 2
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Thes parents need some serious education on raising children.
2007-01-30 11:17:09
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answered by Anonymous
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................. my son !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Took him to go get his two year old pictures......what a joke!!! He was such a monster, I felt sorry for myself!
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2007-01-30 11:27:30
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answered by Anonymous
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