Women are trained not to approach guys. Women are very fickle in selecting the ideal mate. It's always a 50/50 shot when dealing with the "modern" woman. You can never be sure a female will attract to you. Be too aggresive and you will scare her off. Be too passive and she will scare you off!!! Sigh, what's a guy to do?
2007-01-30 11:07:53 · 8 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are some pretty creepy guys out there, like guys that will sexually abuse girls, and as girls, we tell eachother about guys and bad history with guys. The girls probably just don't want to be in a bad situation so they get scared off easily. I know that I have heared way more incidents with men physically abusing women than women abusing men. Most girls want a guy that won't heart them physically or emotionally. We are looking for relationships and we doubt that a relationship will be strong, we get out of it before it hurts anyone.
2007-01-30 11:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Hotdivababe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Balance. You are right about being neither too aggressive nor too passive. It may be 50/50 so you just have to keep on keepin on till you find the right one. A relationship needs to be built, laying a foundation first, being in sync with the other person. It's kind of like dancing, where the two of you stay aware of where the other person is at while you plan your next move. Part of the testing of a guy is whether he either gives up too easily or won't take no for an answer at all.
2007-01-30 11:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by mary_n_the_lamb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society doesnt teach that to women, Men teach that to women. If guy after guy treats you like ****, your not gonna just go out and find another one to treat you like ****. Its usually the guys behavior that determines how "fickle" a girl is going to be. Would you be want to approach a new guy right after you had gotten of an abusive relationship or two? We arent toys, barbies, or dogs that need to be kept on tight leases, or "disciplined" when we do something you dont approve of.
Be a gentleman, treat us with respect, dont act all superior just because you are a male, be honest with us, really listen to us when we talk to you, Just prove to us that ur one of the good guys, show us that you care enough not to hurt us. Sure enough youll be her man.
2007-01-30 11:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Blackangel2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a country song that says...
She's been walked on
And stepped on
Most all of the time.
Something Something
And the last footprint's mine!
Men teach women to be cautious.
Rock and Roll says
Once bitten, Twice Shy!
2007-01-30 11:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not women maybe it's YOU! maybe YOU don't approach them in a correct way!!! we aren't dogs to be "trained" either!
2007-01-30 11:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because men do things to earn that reputation.
2007-01-30 11:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
coz no trust to men who re not our husbands. fear in women is logic, to make men treat her softly and gently, so she can give him wat he wants later on .
if u want her, try to prove ur manhood, and when she loves u through using ur ways and fighting somehow, she ll be convinced that u deserve to be her man.
so no easy thing, but use mind and heart and u ll reach her heart even she gets afraid of u. that makes her loves u.
2007-01-30 11:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by gentle whisper 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what society do you live in???
2007-01-30 11:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋