hi im 14 and my name is ashley and this boy at my school started a roomer and i whant to get the roomer to stop and take revenge on the boy. if you help me i think you so much.
2007-01-30 10:47:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop talking about it and tell your friends to stop talking then ask them to tell other ppl to stop, evenually it'll go away. make up a rumor to tell other ppl, or just tell the principal while crying then he'll get in a lot of trouble, remember to cry though, if you dont, then the principle wont take you seriously.
2007-01-30 10:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Living well is the best revenge. And as far as stopping the rumor, do nothing but live you life as you always have. If he's doing this to you than rest assured, you aren't the only one. He will eventually be seen for what he is, a liar. When that happens, people will come to realize the truth about you. In the mean time, you real friends already know the truth and will stand by you. The best possible thing that you can do to get back at him is to let him see you happy and that no matter what he does it won't effect you. Even if you don't feel like smiling while he is around, make sure you find a reason. Talk to people like nothing ever happend and laugh a lot. That will drive him crazy! Good Luck!
2007-01-30 18:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all sweetie, it's spelled 'rumor'.
The best revenge I've found for people who want your attention is to not give it to them. If you let him see that he has upset you or affected you negatively, that is his reward and he wins.
If you go on with your life and are not affected by whatever he throws in your path, then not only do you win, but you have proven that you are the better person.
There is no way to stop a rumor. It is an unfortunate truth that groups of people will talk ugly about individuals, no matter what. If they don't have something real to talk about, they will make it up. Denying the rumor will probably only make it worse. You may want to discuss this with a school counselor, they have probably dealt with the same sort of issue hundreds of times and will be familiar with the 'flavor' of your school. That's probably the best place to get advice. Take comfort in the certainty that something else will happen soon that will take everyones attention away from you.
Think about how important this will be in a year, or even in six months, and don't do anything you might regret later.
2007-01-30 18:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you shouldn't even give it another thought. Rumors are silly, childish, and barely last at all. By you taking revenge on him, you are basically saying that you are just like him and stooping to his level. Don't do that to yourself. Give yourself more credit than that. Show others that you are above that crap and don't care what other people think because you are secure with yourself, confident of who you are, and don't give it a second thought. The more you come back against the boy, the more others will see you like the boy. If the rumors are very serious in nature then you may want to simply talk with your parents, teachers, school, etc. But just keep in mind that rumors have an expiration date on them. They get started quickly but then they stop just as quickly and then somebody else has to deal with it. Just remember that you are above it. Your friends know you. Others know who you really are. You have nothing to prove. This boy isn't worth the trouble of proving it. It's possible, and obviously I have no idea about this boy or what the rumors are about (and it's none of my business anyway), but he could be just trying to get your attention because maybe (and this is a real "maybe" here, he likes you and doesn't know how else to get your attention. But I don't know. You know him. You know the rumors. But what I do know is that if you take revenge then you are only reducing yourself to his level and you are showing others that it bothers you and that you are insecure enough to act back on it. Don't give them the satisfaction. Just let it roll right off your back and don't even worry about it because rumors are ignorant, stupid, and who needs the worry anyway. Live your own life and don't worry about what others think or say. Now, like I said, if the rumors are really mean and bad, then you may need to tell your parents, a teacher you trust, etc. so they can resolve it. It just depends on the type of rumor. But if it's something silly or whatever then don't even worry about it. Seriously. You're the stronger and more secure person. Rumors don't define who you are.
2007-01-30 18:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by achristian520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell everyone that it isn't true and and if you can/have to then prove it
revenge isnt good it just starts a bunch of trouble but tell the people he started the roomer and that could hurt his rep. to without going through a lot of trouble
p.s. im 14 and my name is ashley too weird
2007-01-30 18:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by lovrascalflatts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get revenge right away, wait until the right time. "Revenge is a dish best served cold" and it may take a long time to get it, but you'll get it. Also to stop the rumor just tell people the truth if they ask you about it.
2007-01-30 18:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if the people buy that rubbish about what that boy said,then the are utter idiots and you should tell them that too. Confront the boy. Ask him what he has against you. Speak up. Tell him what you think of him. Then ignore him. Give him horrible looks if you pass him in the hall or classroom. Be mean untill people understand. But thats only one way of doing it...
2007-01-30 18:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what the rumor is. If it's something stupid (which it most likely is), laugh it off. Ask one of your friends what the rumor is (in public, preferably), then throw back your head an laugh.
"He said that?" You giggle. "I have NO idea where he pulled that from."
This will spread, and pretty soon HE will be the butt of a rumor--that he just made up something and started spreading it around.
BUT DON'T START ONE BY YOURSELF
2007-01-30 18:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Briar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge will get you no where. You need to confront him and let him know that his word spreading has really hurt you. Just be honest, and then walk away. Don't get back at him for talking about you, because it could make him mad and spread even more stuff about you.
2007-01-30 18:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Frogger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. Ignore the rumor. Go about your business knowing the truth and knowing that your real friends know the truth about you anyway. If he persists, and it begins causing serious problems at school that you can't ignore, you'll need to get your parents involved.
2007-01-30 18:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋