Most ladies seem to be only concerned about the probability of an admirer being able to foot their bills rather than looking to validate the sincerity of the professed love and even when they might have found that the guy's feeling is genuine, they rarely consider making things work out. It's like some things are more important... let's rub minds...
2007-01-30 10:43:51 · 11 answers · asked by agboola f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not important to me at all. I am 24, I have my own money. I never have a problem paying my own way, or even his if need be. Just spending time together with someone I care about is important to me. Snuggling on the couch costs no money and might be one of my favorite things to do with a guy. I just want someone who loves me and treats me well. Is that too much to ask?
2007-01-30 10:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because when 2 person from different social class have a realtionship. Each has a different expectaion of what their comfort level is. Each has a different perspective of what money stands for. We are not talking about a romance that last for a few weeks. If the relationship has any merits, the expectancy should be for many years. As we know love is just the catalyst in the begining of any kind of relationship. It evolves as you grow together or apart. The focus shift and change. Unless we live in a subsistence economy, we all know money play a major part in our life. No longer just food, clothing and shelter one has to worry about. The one with less financial capability (including capability of handling money) the easier the focus of the relationship get sidetract. It is not by accident when a relationship works well, so will the health of the finance. By that i do not mean wealth will make your relationship work, rather the ability to have one finance in control, regardless of your income level.
2007-01-30 11:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The social class, and money are directly proportionate to the considering person's own level of shallowness. If they are in tune with their own self worth , and can see the value in others as an individual, and not a social icon,... then they should have no problems arriving at a clear decision on whether or not the other individual is right for them. Peer pressure is powerful, but not insurmountable.
2007-01-30 11:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by T J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have that issue, although, I could use at least a bit of it. I generally fall for men who invision their futures much different than I invision mine. I'm not after a millionaire, and I don't need jewels, but I would like to know that I'm not going to have trouble paying the mortgage, grocery, gas, or electric bills. Many of my past partners were more comfortable living hand to mouth than I am.
2007-01-30 10:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never looked towards a man for money. I prefer a man with a heart and honesty. If he knows how to treat a woman and is good to her. I can make my own money, give me a man with emotions any day, I'm there..
2007-01-30 10:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats bin a question going on for years.....the answers vary ... but the bottom line is that money and social status is important in our times so people like to consider that when it comes to choosing a partner
2007-01-30 11:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by badmab07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't give in to it....you will meet women who don't place as much enphasis on it eventually. They all have "it"...just to what degree.
2007-01-30 10:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by mike Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they don't want to marry someone that will give them a bad rep and they want they're men to be successful and to be able to support them.
2007-01-30 10:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its a genentic thing..Men look at women for there looks..and Women look at men for stability...
2007-01-30 10:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by onthefence 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have never had this porblem b/c I am rich as are all the girls I have dated. Sorry, dude!
2007-01-30 10:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by Aric 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋