Well, I got a boyfriend recently. Uh..about two days ago. But what's really weird is how he hasn't really done too much that makes us look like we're actually going out. Why? Maybe I'm moving too fast, I haven't tried, but he does say "I love you" a lot. But you know, I don't see him ALL that much in school. Like..lunch, in between classes...after school we hang out lots though. "/ I'm pretty weirded out, how could he be shy..he's had gfs before. And he says good things about me when I'm not around.
2007-01-30 10:41:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two days? Your a total freak! Just settle down and take a deep breath
2007-01-30 10:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like HE is the one who is moving too fast. You don't tell someone you love them after 2 days. That's not really love. You may feel like it, but really it's puppy love, that rush from being with someone new. Wait until that rush goes away, which will be a few months, it depends on the couple, and if you are completely comfortable and happy with him still, without that 'new relationship' feeling, then you should say those 3 words.
And the reason he hasn't been doing things that make you look like a couple is probably because it's only been 2 days girl! He's still shy and nervous at this point and doesn't want to be rejected for something he does. And since he isn't that comfortable around you yet, that's another reason he should stay away from the "I love you" thing. Take it easy, you shouldn't worry too much in the beginning of a relationship - just have some fun!
2007-01-30 18:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by jlg_jdf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie how old are you?? Look you sound young and to be honest with you in about 5 to 6 years he would most likely be a fond memory of yours anyway. Don't set yaself up. Puppy love is just what it is and how can he love you and he doesn't even know you. He might know and tell people you are a good person but he hasn't been around you enough to know anything it has only been 2 days. So when you go to school tomorrow ask him to keep it real wit you and step up and spend sum time with you getting to know eachother better. You must be freinds first!!! always remember that and always hav communication at the top too!!
2007-01-30 18:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to be mean, but it doesn't sounds like it's going to last very long, it sounds like a typical middle school realtionship to me. You'll go out for a couple of weeks, you'll tell each other how you love one anouther, kiss as you leave each other for anouther hour and 15 minutes of class time, and perhaps even write "I love you ____" in your msn names, then when the few days of bliss are over, you'll "be over" and he'll go out with another girl. Just the fact that he's teling you he loves you - you've been going out for two days!!
Trust me on this one, i've been in these when I was in grade eight and nine, and i got to watch all of my friends aswell. Don't get too caught up over him, there'll be a new one next month
2007-01-30 18:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really loves you, and he finds it hard how to act around someone who he really loves. First time he feels this way about someone. I know he likes you for-sure because he says good things about you when you're not around. He's happy to have you. Don't worry, when he says i love you, just make sure that he means it. Alot of people say it, but they don't know the meaning. They pass it around like flyers. But if he says good things about you, and he seems kinda shy, it's because it's the first time he feels a certain way.
2007-01-30 18:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Giving a helping-hand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could have lots of gfs before and this time he might want to take it slow due to he might like u alot. also theres no time for him or you to show u guys are dating, due to school and a few minutes of lunch.
its also been two days, just give it time. if after a month theres no sort of affection, communication will be good
2007-01-30 18:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good LORD girl, give this relationship some time. Whats the hurry? The best permanent relationships are built on friendship, which develops into love.
2007-01-30 18:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Brainiac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you let him show you how he intends to move on with your relationship. Maybe he wants to take time to appreciate every stage of it and you should do so too, just appreciate as long as you are not frustrated, two days is so little.
2007-01-30 18:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcorse thinsg will feel weird at first, alot of young mean feel shy when they are openly in a relationship with another guy, you just have to give it some time, if he sweet enough to admit he has strong feelings for you he obv cares alot for you and i think you should just relax and give it some time for you both to ajust to this new relationship, itll be fine :]
2007-01-30 18:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Pyro W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're both much too young to be having relationships and proclaiming love. He's weird because he's a kid.
2007-01-30 18:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋