2007-01-30 10:16:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are half of the relationship, which means you are entitled to have and share your opinion.
You just tell him you are not ready and he is just going to have to accept this. If he makes threats that he'll have to find someone that will, then let him go.
Don't let ANYONE pressure you into something you don't want to do. It's your body and your choice.
2007-01-30 10:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let him know how you are feeling and that you just arent ready tohave sex yet thats a big step for anyone and you should feel that you are ready when you do have sex dont let him presure you into having sex either if he loves you he will respect your feelings and that you arent ready yet for that and he will wait dont feel bad for not being ready to take the next step
2007-01-30 18:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say no. if you have sex and you are not ready it could mess with your head ,and you may feel really bad after wards. if he loves you he will understand and he will wait it may be hard no pun intended but he will wait
you want your first time to be special and memerable for that not remembered as the worst
2007-01-30 18:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by dolsab34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply explain to him that for whatever reason, you do not feel ready and this isn't the right time. If he cannot accept that as an answer, you know right away he's not for you anyway.
2007-01-30 18:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you tell him ur not ready 2 have sex
2007-01-30 18:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by texascowboyforu2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I am not ready to have sex, and if you love me you'll respect that decision and wait until I am ready for it. If you can't do that, then I deserve someone who can."
2007-01-30 18:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just tell so. I'm sure if he loves and respect you, he will accept that decision. If he keep pushing, you know he's got a hidden agenda.
2007-01-30 20:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight forward but not too harshly. Explain to him how it's your body, but how u don't love him any less than u did before. He should understand.
2007-01-30 18:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by B.O.N.A.F.I.D.E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just " No " . . . that should hit him in the head . . .lol.
Wait . . ! Explain to him how you feels about it and if he loves and respects you, he'll accept it.
Or . . . he could convince you to . . . otherwise . . .
Just say what you feel, sometimes it helps to be direct and blunt . . . old fashioned huh? Sometimes it works . . .
2007-01-30 18:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no, you are not ready.
2007-01-30 18:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋