well that's happening to me right now and well i kept my boyfriend
and i told ther other boy to leave me alone and he did but, if you really likes this guy that you are not going out with you should dump your boyfriend and get together with himk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-30 10:23:35
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answered by Anonymous
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I suffered from the same situation before, so I understand your dilemma. I had help from my mum so now I'm going to try to help you.
First of all question yourself, do you love your current boyfriend? If you do, why jeopardize that relationship you've built with your partner? Think of his feelings, how would he feel if he knew you left him for another? Would you like that to happen to you? Put yourself in his shoes.
Infactuation and real genuine love is two different things. Maybe what you felt for the 6th grade guy was just pure infactuation. You have to differentiate the two. What if it turns out, he's not what he appears to be, what if he's just misusing the fact that he knows you like him a long time ago in 6th grade and takes advantage of this. You'll lose your current boyfriend and by then would he still want you?
I am not sure, of what to do with your friends accept, why would you want to leave your current boyfriend for someone who hurts your friends? I am not sure what he does to take out his anger, but it sounds bad. It even sounds like he is threatening to get you to be with him. Being with him does not mean he'll stop taking out his anger at your friends. Its just a ploy, dont be fooled.
Well I hope you'll find comfort that You're not alone in this. But please choose wisely. If he does love you he'll not hurt the people you care about, he wont take his anger out on your friends. Think of your current boyfriend's feelings too, what will he feel when he knows you're leaving him? He'll think he did something wrong to you, which in fact he hasnt. If maybe your relationship is trully over with your current boyfriend and maybe you could think tiwce about it. But again, like I said please choose wisely.
Best of luck to you.
2007-01-30 18:39:17
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answered by amalina 1
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No you don't break up with the guy you are seeing now! If this guy you liked in the 6th grade is acting this stupid because he joined the party late, I don't think her would be a good candidate to date. " The best prediction of future behavior is past behavior" Dr. Phil
2007-01-30 18:21:14
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answered by bingomom 2
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No! Don't just go out with a guy just because he randomly decides he likes you. He just wants to use you, and of course he's going to make you miserable and see his side of things to force you into going out with him. Just give your friends the warning that he's going to be using them to get to you, and stay with your current boyfriend. If you go with him now when he randomly likes you you'll be sending yourself into a whole bunch of trouble when he's finally done using you.
2007-01-30 18:17:28
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answered by winds_of_justice 4
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if you guys keep fighting ( u and your guy) u should just break it off .... then to keep goin back out with him...only break up with him unless you two fight or you honestly don't have true feelings for him!! <3*
2007-01-30 18:18:25
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answered by Brittany 4
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Back then didn't want me Now I'm hot,they all on me!!! Gurrrrrrlllll !!!!!! Nooooo !!!! I need to know the whole situation!!! DId you date before??? Did you want to go out with him before and he said no??? If he did, HELL Nooo!!! Stay with who you're with!!!
2007-01-30 18:23:09
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answered by Stacy88 2
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tell him,
"you're just TOO LITTLE, TOO LATE
'cuz i'm bringin' SEXYBACK
and as a matter of fact my CHAIN does HANG LOW
so SMACK THAT!
ooooo you want some ice with that BURN?"
2007-01-30 18:19:58
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answered by Ask Tara 3
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can u fit both of them in your mouth at the same time?
2007-01-30 18:17:24
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answered by swisschaletlover 1
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f@#k HIM
2007-01-30 18:17:14
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answered by Da Cool Dude 1
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