Hard enough living a tough life, with people i knew say **** behind ya back or w.e. but.. it really gets to me, when they say. "You aint real" it like.... why am i even here?? .. WHY ARE PEOPLE SO mean for?? i never do ANYTHING to them, but try to be friendly.
2007-01-30 10:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by Shawn Miller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aircanadian,
I dont know if this mesh with your situation but this is what i want to say...
All they wanted to do in the first place is to hurt you. They will constantly hurt you in any way they can. That is because they know you well that will hurt you easy. For instance, your in the running race. Their are crowd of people on one side are cheering. On the other side, their are people who are taunting you. They are so many voices going through your ears. Shut those people who is hurting you. Continue your race. Focus what is up ahead. Dont look back or hear anyone that are taunting you, if you do, you are loosing the track or sadly you get behind those runners. You really want to get through no matter how hard you are in physically and emotionally. You are in sweat to get this through. Finally, you are at the finish line. You are the winner. Because of that, you focus what is ahead and shut those people who hurt you. You went through the trails. It is well worth it. Dont you think? So my friend, keep that in mind. At the end, you will feel good about yourself. That is the most beautiful thing in the world.
2007-02-03 16:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nelfie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of negativity - we learned in training. Never surround yourself with negative people they will only bring you down, surround yourself with positive people and positive thoughts.
Get some new friend to chat to - people with different mind sets.
Often people that only want to bring you down is jalous of you - you need people that will support you. As we better our lifes we often change friends and don't have contact with old friends and family - that's because we "outgrow" them You spend time with people more like you, poeple who understand you and have the same ideas and goals, people who don't bring you down.
I think it's time for you to let go of these people and move up to the next level.
If you want insparation or someone to talk to - some positive thoughts or just a positive friend you can write to me juanitaliebenberg@yahoo.com
It sounds like you need it.
2007-02-07 08:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Juanita L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no probly your 2 nice and people r taking atvantage of u.maybe you have to more mean like i am.and i cant beleive people like it.dont be 2 nice then you dont get anything but a broken heart.and im in a band that happened to me and thats how i got to rite the song you broke my hearts about true friend ship.and that when i started to b nice the people talk behind my back.you have to make the people scared of you not you scared of them.
2007-02-07 18:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by mi hi yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don,t need friends like that-back stabers.perhaps looking for new friends who appreciate you it,s better.life is never easy when it comes to friends.keep possitve and keep hope alife.I have to be honest and say i won,t put up with comments like that from supposed friends,i will stand up and tell them what they can do with all that bull there saying behind my back.beside they are cowards when they talk behind your back.take a stand and don,t be as friendly keep that for those who really desearve it,ok.
2007-02-07 11:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people like that aren't worth the effort you gave to type this question. don't worry about people like that, you don't want friends that act like that anyway. people who don't like you for you aren't worth trying to be friends with. most of them only have each other because no one in their right mind would want to be friends with them. don't give up on finding friends, and don't waste your time on people like that. do activities that you like, and meet friends who are doing the same things you are. you'll have a pretty good chance of finding someone with the same interests you have.
good luck!!!!
2007-02-07 18:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some peple just dont have lives!!! besides just being mean to other people. some pep are so miserable in thier own lives they go around ruining everyone elses!!! cheer up what goes around comes around!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 15:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by dirt77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the same problem w/me. why do people do that? all for 1 reason. they are jeaous of u. trust me i had alottttt of experience!
2007-02-07 18:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by ♥sunshine♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are jelous of you. or they are scared 2b your friend or it might be that they are just plain mean! maybe its all they know cuz people r allways mean 2 them.,
2007-02-07 18:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by shy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit them
2007-02-07 16:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by Flame B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋