Ok seriously....am i generalizing?? My mother in law is obsesed with her son. She trys in every way possible to make us fight or break us up. I thought it was me..buut according to his sister she had done it in the past..(she never got her way) but she is so damn dramatic, and she lies. honestly i hate her
2007-01-30 10:08:48 · 7 answers · asked by Tina B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think it is the country they are from all mother-in-laws or most of them have no life so they have to have something to do they have never heard of hobbies or even take a class. Move as far as possible from her.
2007-01-30 10:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girlfriend, be careful what you say. Remember, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. What you see in your boyfriend's mother, is also in him. Maybe you should take a pass on this relationship considering you already "hate" his mother. How in the world could you marry, have children with this man if you "hate" his mother? Better think twice, or choose your words better. Always remember that a boy grows into a man, and 99.9% of men marry women that strongly resemble,act and most certainly Cook, like their mothers!And when boys grow up they become their mother's "protector", as nature provided in their DNA's - so if you can't get along with his mother, you will never last the "long term"with him.
2007-01-30 18:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i feel your pain. I am going through the same thing sept for ours is worse because we are still in school and he still lives with her because we are young. We are both 13 and have been together for 5 years so since we were 8. We love each other so much and i sucks because we are not allowed to talk on the phone or see each other. He thinks she hates me because he is black, Hawaiian, and Filipino and i am white but i just think she hates me because we are very serious and love each other so much. He has already proposed and we have planned out our lives only because the more we talk about it the more it seems real. We are very true to our faith so it is not like she hates me because she thinks we are having sex because we have promised each other, god and ourselves that we will wait so basically she has no reason to hate me and she still does so just know you arnt the only one.
2007-01-30 18:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It May not be because she's from the Dominican...sounds like no matter who her son dates......they'll never be what SHE wants for them. Like you said, it's happend in the past according to his sister......and the mother never got her way. SOunds like your boyfriend does what HE wants to do..and SEES who HE wants to see.
If you honestly don't like her (hate is such a strong word)..then try to avoid goin to her place and if your boyfriend still wants you to go there, try talking to him and letting him know you don't want to spend your night with him, having her try to interfere everyway she can. Not much else you can do..and even if he speaks to her which he probably has many times.....she's set in her ways...and nothing or no one can change them.
Still try to be sooooooooooooo NICE and POLITE with her.....which will peave her off even more...but don't let her get the better of you* Remember...that Is and Always will be HIS mother* If you start "trashing" his mother and talking badly of her ways....he'll leave you. Unfortunately. So my best advice is hang in there, keep your chin up and try try try to not let her get to you* You're better than that* GOODLUCK*~
2007-01-30 18:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because of the coco leaf that they chew while pregnant - this causes a biological cord to be formed that keeps the little boys tied to their mommies apron for life. My advice is to look elsewhere or get used to having the old lady in your life running it and ruining it!
2007-01-30 18:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by stupido#1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't HATE that will just eat you up--stay away from her --don't allow her to get involved in your marriage--YOUR husband needs to side with you over this--tell him so--and if the Mom wants to have any sort of relationship here she needs to respect you and he and the sanctity of marriage--And you say she creates fights?? When you know that an argument is because of what she says?? Tell your husband you will not fight over that subject--its from his Mom and you just wont allow that --Period
2007-01-30 18:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont kno why.but your dateing him not the mom,not the family
2007-01-30 18:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by dumbass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋