I seem to fall for guys hard...really easily...like this guy that i'm not even with but we have **cough** "benefits"..and we spend time together and stuff like we're together...and I think that I LOVE him..well I know I do..and I dont want to be in love with him...help!!! I hate when this happens....
2007-01-30 10:07:15 · 30 answers · asked by RockStar Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Set high standards for yourself. Break out the paper and pencil and sit down. Make a list of everything you want in a guy. So you have standards then you want fall in love as easily.
2007-01-30 10:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by livvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound alot like me. I am happily married now, but back before I was? I would fall in and out of love at the drop of a hat. Part of that was because I couldn't sustain a relationship because of my childhood issues. I had a hard time with commitment. I didn't trust anyone. However, it didn't stop me from falling hard and fast when I did garner an interest in a lovely woman. I was engaged five times and married twice in my life. Sounds horrible huh? LOL Well, after three years of therapy which I truly needed, ( My wife suggested I should go ), I finally was able to overcome the things that were messed up about me. My wife and I have been together now for 19 years. Sooooo, in time you will find the right person too....hopefully sooner than later...
2007-01-30 10:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by slavetofs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. I also always end up falling for guys real hard and fast and then end up regretting it. Honestly, I don't know what to do about it, but the only advice I can give you is to not get involved with someone you're not sure about. Because since it's in your nature to fall in love easily, pick a guy that you won't regret getting attached to.
2007-01-30 10:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way..but im just a sucker for romance..lol... you really need to know how to control yourself and make a list of what you look for and need in a guy like a few important triats..of course noone is perfect but everyone eventually finds that special someone!i think when you meet guys,take a long time to get to know them and to really know what type of realtionship you would be getting yourself involved with. but when u think its love at 1st sight and so on..it is not love it is love or infauation. love is something that develops in long periods of time. well good luck!
2007-01-30 10:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you actually fall "In Love". You need to look at the chance that you only fall out of wanting to be alone. If you listen to Your Heart. It'll tell you when it's the right time. Most of your times. ain't been right. Bring it back to The Heart. Your Heart. and have it beat, in tune with his. Or keep it to yourself. Happiness soon follows.
2007-01-30 10:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy answer to this question...follow ur heart...if that muscle is forever leading you in the wrong direction....run 2 ur nearest store purchase a notebook and a few pens and write out ur feelings....then once you've done that READ THEM...and what u wrote come accross to u as sounding "out the box" then u've helped urself resolve ur own issues....
2007-01-30 10:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by itsmeuguys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there a difference between love and true love, you may be falling in love so easily because you want to find the right person so bad that your mistaking the to..
2007-01-30 10:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is any thing wrong with falling in love, and plus there is all diferent kinds to like loving your friends loving your family its just a different catogory.
2007-01-30 10:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by hilo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you ever think that maybe you are in lust with him and in love with the idea of a boyfriend?? love doesnt just happen like that..i dont believe so n e way. i think u can fall hard for him but it isnt nescessarily love. good luck to you though!
2007-01-30 10:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by ..cHeRi.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u stop opening up your legs so easily maybe guys wouldnt make u fall for them so easily
2007-01-30 10:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mitchell H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋