Ok, i have thease three best best best friends (ex now..) and for the past 5 months we havnt stoped fighting about this guy and now our relationships are over.
Anyways.. they HATE my now boyfriend alex becuase of some stupied things he did awhile back. I havnt talked to thease friends for about one or two months now.
All of a sudden i get this email from one of them. After a couple of letters back n forth the girl told me 'ok we'll take u back IF AND ONLY IF u dump ur bf'. I said no of course because that is not something u would ask of someone.
My ex friends have been spreading rumors about me and telling people to spy on me even!
One even called me today and yelled at me.
My moms not here for me cus shes drunk
i have no one to turn to and this has been going on for SO LONG!! They wont leave me alone!
was i right to not dump him or should i go back to my old friends.
Im really lonley without them scence i really dont have any close friends anymore.
HELP!
2007-01-30 10:02:38 · 10 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i am madley in love with him.
I couldnt dump him.
But im sick of my friends doing this and i dont have any REAL girlfriends anymore. Im moving at the end of the year so is it worth giving up the one person that makes me happy right now? i dont think i can do it
2007-01-30 10:03:46 · update #1
I also feel like i will never make friends i no thts not true but it sure feels like it
2007-01-30 10:13:44 · update #2
I would remind your friends that true friends stand up for their friends.
And that if they really wanted to be your friend then they'd accept you even if they don't accept him.
2007-01-30 10:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you aren't really in love with your boyfriend, but you won't realize that until years from now when you are an adult...Secondly you are right...these girls are not your friend if they are telling you they will take you back only if you break up with your man. Your friends probably want you to be happy and think your man is a slimeball and that's fine if they think that, but they can't make you give him up...Their job is to be there for you no matter what happens between you and your man.
Also, if they are spreading rumors about you, then you don't need them anyways...Get used to it...this is the games girls play.
Right now you feel like you have no one, but there is not better friend other than yourself!!! Start using yourself as your friend because in the end, that's the only person who you can count on.
Funk those other girls. Ignore them. Don't even speak to them. Eventually they will get bored with you and then start talking about someone else.
2007-01-30 10:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This is going to make you a stronger person. Talk to your boyfriend about the situation, but don't dump him. He just needs to know why you may be moody or clingy sometimes for awhile (guys don't always get us unless we are SUPER SPECIFIC). As for your 'friends', too bad. They are just jealous and might dump you again after they get what they want and then you would be completely alone.
They are not acting like good friends, therefore, they are not worth it. Time to make some new friends.
2007-01-30 10:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by shees_a_challenge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, true friends do not put conditions on any relationship. They should be there to support you in anything not demand that you leave a boyfriend or otherwise. I understand your need for friends, but, I think you should be searching for true friends instead of these girls, what did the boyfriend do to them to make them hate him so much anyway.
2007-01-30 10:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT dump him just because your friends want you to. Thats not a reason! Do what you WANT to do!!!! they are not the boss of you and if they actually cared about you they would let you be happy.
2007-01-30 10:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, If they don't agree with your relationship then their really not your friends. Friend guide each others back 24'7 you know. Friend don't criticize or do what they do so just think about it and do what makes you happy not what makes others happy.
2007-01-30 10:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jahaira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may attempt to sparkling up the clarification they're combating and attempt to cause them to not hate one yet another as lots. in the event that they shop persevering with to combat and you do not decide to p.c. components merely walk away and carry out with another human beings for the day and spot what's going to ensue.
2016-10-16 07:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I must say they have a lot of nerve. It's none their business who you date. Sounds controlling to me. They wouldn't like it if the roles were reversed.........if you really like this guy good going hang onto him. If they want to spread rumour and give you alternatives. Sorry to say they're not friends worth having. Let them say what they want..............in the meantime............I wouldn't communicate with periord.....................There's a saying what goes around comes around.........trust me, it does.
2007-01-30 10:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you are thinking of getting rid of someone you love for the likes of your old friends who you hate.
do you really need to ask others for an answer?
you have answered it yourself.
2007-01-30 10:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by Neorini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your boy..youll find new friends who wont tell you to leave the person who makes you happy..goodluck :]
2007-01-30 10:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋