how do i find a girl if i am very shy?

Question

I'm 20, i've been told i am attractive, but i have a weak personality and am very shy.

also can you look at my other question.. nobody answered it :(

i went on one date ever in my life, and she isn't calling me or answering my phones anymore so i'm single.

Answer 1

The best thing for you would be to just not let yourselft seem desperate. I don''t want to mean harsh, what I mean is that you have to Love yourself, and see yourself for the great guy you are. Are you sweet? Respectful? Caring? Honest? Loving?, also loosen up realize that everyone out there is basically thinking the same thing when seeking someone to love them, " Do I look attractive to this person?", "Do I sound like a dork?", etc, etc..
There is someone out there for everyone, so make sure to keep that in mind, if the door closes on someone, be glad, for it wasn't meant to be.
You are young, too young to worry too much about this. You have years, and years to go.
Just Enjoy your life the way it is now, Enjoy yourself, Enjoy your friends, and family if you have any, and go out and do something to help others, make the world better, and then when you least are expecting it, bam, she will be there, smiling at you.

Answer 2

I have the exact same problem. Just try not to think about the fact that you're shy. try to think about what you're going to say to the girl. have a game plan that distracts you from your fears. it's much easier to just suck it up and force yourself to go talk to someone. some times it works. sometimes it doesn't

Answer 3

just go up and talk to random people... its easier than talking to people u already know, because they wont ever see you again so you dont have to worry about it

Answer 4

just try to work your way to knowing other people. talk to friends, and have them HELP U OUT.

Answer 5

welcome to the world.Dont give up dude be strong am also looking 4 one.onetime it will happen 2 you that is meet your one and only...