sex for the first time and the guy is not a virgin, but the girl is, does that necessarily mean he has to ask her constantly if she's alright?
2007-01-30 09:25:29 · 19 answers · asked by jess p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah but I think with a virgin you'll be able to tell whether they're alright or not.
2007-01-30 09:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not constantly. I just lost my virginity 3 weeks ago and if my boyfriend asked me all the time if I was ok, I would have been really annoyed. He just told me before hand that if I wanted to stop for any reason, just say the word. That made me more relaxed and I think that made him feel better too.
2007-01-30 17:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to but it is nice since you are taking something from her and she probably thinks you care about how she feels! Plus losing you virginity to someone hurts the amount of pain depends on the size, the bigger the more pain the smaller the less pain, so if she is not in to much pain then you wont need to comfort her but......yeah
2007-01-30 17:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not nessecerily.
If she's the type of girl who might change her mind partway through, or doesnt give you enough feedback, or she winces and you think something's wrong, then it's good to ask, but personally, I wouldnt want my bf asking me the whole time. I think that'd take something out of it.
2007-01-30 17:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mellissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he is overdoing it, but I assume only because he cares. Loosing their virginity can be painful for some girls. He just wants to make you feel good.
2007-01-30 17:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.. prolly should. I really wouldn't know but i think it sounds like the right thing to do.
2007-01-30 17:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Just lube her backside up and break her in. Show no mercy!
2007-01-30 17:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be nice to, but as stated before people (not just chicks) can lie about being a virgian or not.
2007-01-30 17:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cares he will, but he doesnt have to. it can be very. verryyy painful the first time.
2007-01-30 17:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by braineak123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if she seems like she is not enjoying it....if she is like..ouch ouch ouch ouch ouch..then its natural for a guy to ask if she is alright...right?
2007-01-30 17:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋