We dated some time ago and he ended up showing provocotive pictures of me that were on his phone to other co-workers. This was very embarrassing. This has really hurt my feelings because I stilll thought of him as a friend. He has gotten written up by one of the co-workers that saw them but should I take it further or let it go?
2007-01-30 08:59:46 · 37 answers · asked by Angie34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should take it further, If you lucky you may even get compensation from the jerk.
2007-01-30 09:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
i'd let it go because he's winning if he thinks it's getting to you and he'll carry on being a jerk. The best revenge is to show he isn't going to get to you, that will probably wind him up even more. Forget him, he isn't worth the trouble. Prove that your a better person than he is and hold your head up. Just don't send anybody else pictures to their phone unless they can be trusted completely.
2007-01-30 09:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Emmmn...
Maybe put it around how small his willy is,
how he lasts 2 seconds.
Got any photos of him?
Put an add in gay weekly contacts.
also add this to his tea.
Blairs 16m reserve
the hottest chilli product on the planet...
16m scoves... tabasco sauce is 3 thousand...
Or something in between.
Say 4 million reserve.
Have yogurt at the ready to ease his pain... only after he grovels
Or (and only if he is not taking medication and you can check if its safe...)
Viagra
Much more fun then getting him fired.... Then aggree on a truce and try and be mates again with his lesson learnt.
2007-01-30 09:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk,Take it all the way.Next time though dont let someone your just dateing take provocotive pic of you and you want have this to worry about.Those are for after you get married if thats what you want to do But still be careful you may not be married to the same person forever.GOOD LUCK
2007-01-30 09:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by lawson403 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and tell him how you feel, if he has any kind of heart he will probably realize the repercussions of his actions and feel awful. Guys will do things around other guys just to seem cool without really thinking it out... not to say what he did wasn't wrong, but sometimes guys just don't think.
And if he's just a jerk about it... well you can be the bigger person and let it die, or just tell all your girlfriends at work how small his manhood is (truth or not). =)
2007-01-30 09:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Bunger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want to go to HR or your boss, then ok, but this issue is better left as it is. do you really want everyone in the building knowing your personal business, as if enough people dont know already?! to keep dragging it up is just going to end up being humiliating on your part again with more and more people knowing. just put it down to one of lifes great lessons....never trust a camera phone. or especially a jerk with a camera phone! xxx
2007-01-30 09:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by hana woo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thy say revenge is sweet but you must remember that you will still be working at this place and and life could get uncomfortable especially if he is a popular guy just thank your Lucky stars you are not his friend anymore because with a friend like him who needs enemy's
love tubby
2007-01-30 09:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by tubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is definitly not the answer. Take it as a hard lesson learned......and try not to repeat the mistake. First off, becareful who takes pictures of what in the future.......and dating co-workers is never a good idea. If you try to get revenge ..... it could turn in to a on going nightmare for you......you have suffered enough.....let it go and move on.
2007-01-30 09:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by dreamingangel73 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I hope you learned those lessons!! Dating a co-worker is generally a bad idea . . . and allowing a guy to take pics of you like that is a VERY bad mistake unless you are in a LTR and totally trust each other. Let it go and remember not to make those mistakes again - perhaps time to find another job . . .
2007-01-30 09:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Thats pretty bad, you should totally get revenge in a sneaky, but close-to-legal way lol.
2007-01-30 09:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by youshouldbedead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends. if you can get revenge without getting your own *** in trouble then go ahead. don't do anything too drastic though. just something that will make him learn not to mess with you. aren't ex-boyfriends jackasses?
2007-01-30 09:07:38 · answer #11 · answered by BlackParadeGirl37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋