There's this girl that I really like and I told her and I got her number or whatever but it just seems like its not going anywhere at first i was just going to say forget it but i realized i really liked her and i really wanted to be with her i really need help stimulating conversation so that she can build an attraction for me.
2007-01-30 08:55:38 · 11 answers · asked by chrislive09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need to do is stop paying so much attention to her, whether girls want to admit it or not, they all like guys that seem disinterested. Now like you in assuming, I'm not like that, but you have to be. The girl I'm dating now is a perfect example. When I act all lovey towards her I can clearly tell that she seems less interested. But when I seem somewhat distant, not calling her much, sometimes telling her that I don't want to go out that night cause I'm too tired, all of a sudden shes calling me all the time. I wish it weren't the case but the whole thing is a game. Girls want a challenge, and everyone wants what they cant have, its human nature pure and simple. Heed my words and you will get the outcome you want. But know, that I'm not saying to be an a hole, or a jerk, just less interested than you are. It may be difficult to back off but it will be worth it in the long run!!! Good luck
2007-01-30 09:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, women are much like men in that way. We don't really build attractions. We either are or we are not attracted to someone. You can build a friendship or a respect even love, but it's never Lustful passionate irresistible love and I'm sure you want and deserve the passionate kind. If she doesn't seem to be reciprocating, move on. Its not going to hurt anything because if she really does want you, she will let you know.
2007-01-30 17:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by stephyhall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't. Either she will be attracted to you or she will not. However, you can be more interesting. Start by taking an active interest in her and what she likes. You may find you two have some common ground that will bring you closer together. If she likes to go dancing, invite her out to a great club. Find the things she likes and focus on them and remember that the little things make all the difference.
2007-01-30 17:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you gotta have something in common. If you can get enough conversation going you'll find something. Work towards that.
2. You gotta be funny. Take the one liners that life presents and use them if they're not too corny.
3. Don't try too hard, you gotta have the "I have nothing to lose" attitude. This will keep you cool under pressure and relaxed. If she walks away there'll be another one in a minute.
These tips might help, but you gotta be yourself!
2007-01-30 17:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Wes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i can give u my advice ok jus keep going how it goes and mabey things will change for u guys or u can tell her how you really feel and mabey that will change it too
2007-01-30 17:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself around her, if she isn't attracted to you, it's not your loss, it's hers. You'll find the right girl for you!
2007-01-30 16:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by MJ MCK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make multiple "accidental bump-ins" wirth her and just tlk about whtever comes up. thn brielfy hand her a rose one day and tell her u love her. she'll fall right for u!
2007-01-30 17:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Little*Miss*Perfet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look her in the eye
wear a good cologne (not too strong)
make her laugh
surprise her w/ something she would love
p.s. if it doesn't work out, remember, there r other girls
2007-01-30 17:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by ♥aɳgel♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and if she likes you she likes you, if not move on to someone else.
2007-01-30 17:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she's attracted or she isn't you can't make it happen,
2007-01-30 17:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mystee_Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋