There is this guy i have liked since the begining of the year. we had gym together first semester and we would always flirt. well now we don't have any classes together but we see each other in the hall way some times and talk. i went to his basketball game on saturday and after the game he gave me a hug and thanked me for comming. then he asked for my number. well a couple min later he called me and told me i looked really cute. i have tried to call/message him but he doesn't reply. but i really like him. what i do?!?
2007-01-30 08:46:27 · 16 answers · asked by SMILE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore him and don't let him have that pimp sort of idea about it. he's interested and only talk to him face to face until he starts messaging back
2007-01-30 08:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Dodge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He apparently really like you, there is no doubt. I am not sure why he didnt reply to you. Maybe you did something like once he called you you stop calling him back a lot of texting him too much to push him of or even scare him passing for a desperate woman. Now sweety what you need to do is become that sweet desireable girl. Stop bugging him over the phone and wait....if you have to wait for a week or two then fine!. Hey i mean he will see you in school again and then you can probably ask him flirtingly if he forgot how to pick up the phone or something.....the main thing is to wait. He likes you and its hard to believe he just punked on you.
2007-01-30 16:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's already noticed you.
If he's not responding to your calls or messages he might just be busy - he's in sports right?
If you want to get into contact with him try to do it in person. Sometimes people don't keep up with phone or electronic messages. Meet up with him in the hall like you usually do. Since you don't see him as often now, when you finally do, set up some hang-out time. Ask him if he wants to go have lunch or see a movie or do something outside of school.
If he likes you as much as he seems to, things should go great from there. Try not to get too upset if he doesn't get back to your calls right away. I know how it is to be anxious when you really like someone ;)
2007-01-30 16:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by jetkitty83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously already noticed you. If he is not replying to your calls or messages, then it's because he doesn't want to. Unless he is chained up in a basement somewhere being prevented from texting or calling I would say he is working on something (someone) else at the moment.
I would just stop noticing him, that'll get his attention. Move on
2007-01-30 16:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by stephyhall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he said that you were cute and hugged you, he DEF likes you atleast a little. thats very obvious. but that doesnt mean he wants a relationship. dont wear short skirts or throw yourself at him for him to notice you, that just makes you look slutty. so theres a few rules.
a) be yourself. i know it sounds lame but if you try to be someone else he wont like you, he'll like the person your pretending to be.
b) dont text him or IM him so much. even when your dieing and you NEED to talk to him, resist yourself. if you talk to him all the time or always talk to him in the hall hes gunna think "i dont have to ever go to her, i know shes gunna come to me in a few minutes anyway". you should always leave him wanting more. trust me, he'll come around more.
c) always smile when you see him. you wont look like an idiot, he'll notice. guys notice if you just look at him sweetly. give him 'the look' now and then.
d) have some patients. whats the rush ? he'll come around.
2007-01-30 16:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by braineak123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him if you see him again in the hall and ask him if he would want to chill sometime. But dont act too desperate or too over the top.
2007-01-30 16:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by bballlady705 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him at school tell him you were trying to get a hold of him a couple of times but could not get thru. And ask him if he wants to hang after school at your house or his. Good luck
2007-01-30 16:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if didn't answer stop calling/messaging. The more you call/message him the more desprate/needy you seem. Let it go for now, it's up to him to make the next move. If he doesn't move on, it's his loss.
2007-01-30 16:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait and see dont message him to much or youll look needy when you see him in the hall smile but dont ponce on him he has to wnat you and chase you if you just give yourself to him he wont be interested
2007-01-30 16:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ignore him....guys want what is mysterious to them and what they think they cant have don't ever seem to anxious or needy, no one wants that, be confident and make him come to you. DO NOT chase him.
2007-01-30 16:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by tommi_williams2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋