if it's too soon.
2007-01-30 08:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you know if it's too soon. It sounds like you're ready to find a friend to spend some time with, but may not be ready to share your life with the new friend as you shared your life with your husband. You can have friends without it leading anywhere uncomfortable.
I hope you find happiness again.
2007-01-30 08:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.
There is no right or wrong time frame for something like that. You have to follow your heart because everybody feels differently. However, I would say, if you are wondering if it's too soon, it may be....for you. Two years does seem like a fair amount of time though. It wouldn't hurt to give it a try.....get your feet wet and see what happens.
2007-01-30 16:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by kj 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that one. The people that love and care about you will want to see you happy. Knowone expects you to live your life alone. You shouldn't feel bad for wanting to go on with your life and to meet someone new.
I would recommend casual dating for awhile. Nothing serious at first. A friend of mine told me that it would be good to do this for at least 6 months before even considering something more serious.
You know.....like just getting your feet wet. Learn to have fun just going out with friends for starters then maybe a date here and there for awhile.
Hope this helps!
2007-01-30 16:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by HDlovinggal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a different time line on these things. Some people never get over it and remarry or even date. Take it slow and date as friends and see how you feel. You are not betraying your husband by getting on with your life but you do need to take your time and make sure that you are ready. I wish you luck and happiness
2007-01-30 16:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell no it's not too soon. Get out there girl. Live your life. I know you loved your husband but do you think he wants you to be alone and miserable? No, he want's you to be happy. I know if I died, I'd want my wife of 26 years to go on with her life. Much love to you and God Bless You.
2007-01-30 16:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to meet new people, but are afraid of what others think of you? If you are ready, then it's time. Do not worry about what might be right for anyone else. Do what's right for you! Good Luck!
2007-01-30 16:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sam F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable then it probably is too soon. Nobody can make that decision for you - only you know if you are emotionally ready to put yourself back out on the market.
2007-01-30 16:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by lunasage 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not too early if you feel its not too early. Only you can decide that. When you are ready, don't feel guilty about it.
I doubt your husband would want you to just be alone the rest of your life.
2007-01-30 16:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the internet has an endless supply of ways to meet people. and just because youre making new friends doesnt mean it has to turn out to be romantic. dont be so hard on yourself!
2007-01-30 16:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by hopefreegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your loss. 2 years is a long time.(i don't know your age is) you have to have people and friends. to be with. or your lost.go out have a good time. have some fun. take it slow. and be cool. do i get 10points?????
2007-01-30 16:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋