my bestfriend is dating this guy i like and i told her i liked him before she asked him out and now hes moving and he doesnt know how i feel but im afraid if i tell him my bestfriend will be mad
2007-01-30 08:23:24 · 22 answers · asked by taylor a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him. Your best friend should not have done that. But girls are mean. I know that because I am one. :)
TELL HIM.
2007-01-30 08:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, your best friend new you liked him and is dating him. What a best friend. Will they still be dating once this guy moves. Who is to say that you and this guy can not stay in touch. If she is truly your bestfriend then she would of spoke to you before dating him. If she gets mad then thats something she will just have to get over. He is moving right? If you don't tell him that you like him or have some feeling for him then you may never have the chance. Also, tell your friend that you want to tell him before he moves, you may find out that you don't like him in that way. I really hope she is YOUR best friend. If she liked him to she should of told you. Plus a guy really isn't worth it when it comes to your friends especially the ones you think you will have for a lifetime. I have had my best friend for 17 years. I was a junior in highschool and she had graduated. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-30 08:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ranger Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my dear let me tell something this situation happened to me also. im sorry but your friend knew from the beginning before she dated this person that you had feeling for this person so she doesn't played fair with you. second never ever show your feelings because if he's going out with her now thats it, you must move on. what will you do if this guy after you tell him don't talk to you anymore and even worse you end up alone? think about it
2007-01-30 08:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Dianne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is a jerk and you shouldn't be afraid she'll be mad! I don't think that you should tell that boy anything cause he's moving and you're only gonna end up hurt and you'll regret for not doing anything before. And as for your "friend"... well, I don't think you should spend time with her anymore cause she's just trying to make you jealous.
2007-01-30 08:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry your bff is dating your crush =[ thats no fun...well you can tell him nothing is wrong about telling him that you have feelings for him the only reason your bff would be mad is because she is jealous and wants him all for herself which is normal since it is her bf but still...that doesnt make her a good bff. Your not cheating on anybody just simply letting your feelings be known. Go For it. We are all here for you!
<3 M.C.
2007-01-30 08:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by morena0kizzez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then she's not a good friend. For me, that means that she doesn't care about your feelings. Just do what you think is right. Talk to the boy and tell him how you feel. It doesn't matter if your friend gets mad. You should be mad at her for not caring about you. Good luck!!!
2007-01-30 08:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were a guy I'd say "bros before hoes". I don't mean any disrespect to females at all. All I mean by that is friends come first. Why would you tell this guy that you like him and risk making your best friend upset if he's leaving anyway? Doesn't seem worth it. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-30 08:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Leohades 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, shes STILL you're best friend after she did that! Wow, shes a good friend, but anyway. For this reason and because of rumors spreading around all the time, I dont tell people who I like because they will try to hook me up with them and its very annoying!
2007-01-30 08:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by youshouldbedead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since your friend started dating this guy when she already knew your feelings, if you want, you should absolutely tell this guy how you feel. its only returning the favor! however, it sucks that this guy is leaving. the truth is, he'll be gone and your friend will still be around, so it may just be easier to let this guy go. plus, long distance relationships are tough. but if this guy is really worth it, go for it!
2007-01-30 08:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI
If he is moving then don't he'll probably tell your friend and that could end that friendship, maybe she liked him too when you did. Since he is moving forget it and find something else that situation is not worth it.
Lammy
2007-01-30 08:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Clammy S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. There's no good reason he has to know.
Besides, if he waits for women to ask him out instead of showing initiative and asking them, he isn't a man worth dating; he's too passive.
2007-01-30 08:34:00 · answer #11 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋