2007-01-30 08:18:30 · 21 answers · asked by eric_19912002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well that's called reaction formation, and being a 12 year old. Go up to her directly, apologize for the note, and tell her you actually like her, and you don't know why you wrote the note and you know it was mean. That will at least get her talking.
Great strategy, by the way.
2007-01-30 08:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First ooff why would you give her a note like that for..Are you trying to hurt her...What would you think if someone gave you a note that said the same thing.Would you feel like anyone cared about you.
I don't mean to sound harsh but she has got to be really hurt right now....and if everyone wonted her to know this then don't you think they can give her a note....whats up with the notes?your how old?
2007-01-30 08:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you give her that note?! Never mind now. If she's smart and knows psychology, she'll realize that's something's up between you two. If that's not the case, I think you should be nice to her, better than ever before. You'll see the positive reaction and if you're brave enough, you'll give her a Valentine's Day card! Good luck :)
2007-01-30 08:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why in the **** would you do that? I swear I don't understand guys sometimes. What's the deal with you not being able to tell her how you really feel? Instead you try to make her feel lower than dirt, now you're guilty and need advice. Tell her the fukking truth or leave her the hail alone. Bottom line.
2007-01-30 08:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by keipitright 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy kick me when Im down you need to talk to her face to face and tell how you feel. If you were man enough to hand her that note knowing how you feel than you need to step up to the plate and be a man and tell her how you feel about her. Good Luck
2007-01-30 08:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that? Why would you want to hurt her if you like her? Why would you want to hurt her even if you didn't? Apologize to her immediatly. Tell her that you were a total idiot and that you don't know what made you do such a mean and immature thing. Tell her that the truth is, you really like her and was too embarrassed to tell her. Tell her that you don't blame her if she doesn't forgive you, but that you hope she will....and if she doesn't...then the truth is, you got exactly what you deserve!
2007-01-30 08:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by ceegt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a note that says except me. meaning you
2007-01-30 08:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, why'd you give her a note saying no one likes her? That was very inconsiderate you probably hurt her feelings very badly and you need to walk up to her and apologize.
2007-01-30 08:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really have to apologize to her...and fast! but you need to be prepared for the fact that she might not forgive you and there might not be any back tracking on this one...why would you give her a note like that? if she likes you, she might have been crushed...i know i would be. good luck. hopefully, she will forgive you.
2007-01-30 08:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by somegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definatly appologize to her because that would definatly lower her self confidence. Tell her that you have feelings for her and that you like her. Tell her you were not thinking in the longrun and you had some time to think about it and you were totally wrong. Tell her your sorry.
Best of wishes kesha
2007-01-30 08:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋