why do we feel guilty after we do things to get to the one we love...I have done too much for him and he does not seem to care.
why do i feel guilty even if I know everything I have done is because I love him?
(Not bad things..just a little stupid.)
2007-01-30 07:55:09 · 15 answers · asked by Pringuita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first off it depends on what you have done.... and most the time we fill guilty because we feel like what we did didnt do nothing but get us in trouble and they dont even care sometimes if you would risk your chance an do stuff like that he would problly start to notice you more you no what i mean act like he treats you
2007-01-30 08:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Erica R@e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you expected the outcome of what you did to be different than what actually happened. I don't think it's normal to feel guilty about doing something especially if its for the one you love. Unless he pressured you into doing those things and you didn't really want to do them... then that's when it becomes an issue. It doesn't matter if you love someone of not, you shouldn't have to do "stupid" things just to make them happy.
2007-01-30 16:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful♥Baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't "love" the same way girls do. You have to learn that and you won't get hurt so much. Love yourself more and don't rely on others to make you happy. Happiness is a state of mind and it's different for all people. Only you know what makes you happy. If you don't know what it is yet, spend some quality time with yourself and find out.
2007-01-30 16:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you feel as though you have betrayed yourself, because you may have done things you didn't want to do, but you did them to make him happy or to please him. Lesson #1 in life - always be true to yourself. My father always had a great saying while was growing up, that I still believe in - you are the only one who has to be happy with you when the day is done, and you close your eyes to go to sleep. If you have disappointed yourself, then you only have you to blame.
2007-01-30 16:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by buggsnme2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You feel bad because, you love him and you hurt him but you didnt attend toSo it hurts you. If he doesnt love you back then you should stop doing so much for him untill you figure it out. Spend some time away from him to figure it out. Maybe you should talk about it wit him.
2007-01-30 16:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by brittany t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight...your acting and doing things a little stupid to get to someone you love right? Would you want to get with someone who looked and acted that stupid around you?
2007-01-30 16:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Treyes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I don't really understand your question. I would agree with one of the answers that stated that men and women "love" differently. From what I do understand about your question, he sounds like he takes you for granted.
2007-01-31 12:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you feel that in a way he is not what you were hoping for and that you`ve done too much to get his attention, and by doing that you`ve already hurt yourself
2007-01-31 11:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mr. Smooth.....a definition of "a little bit stupid" is needed first.
2007-01-30 18:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by Easy Mac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i did the whole braclets thing where if someone broke them i would have to do what the color meant to the guy broke it and me and my b/f did all the colors so yeah and i was only 15
2007-01-30 16:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tweetz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋