I would get hurt most if it is a girl and you?
2007-01-30 07:54:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any kind of cheating would hurt. man or woman... It would be the same for me.
2007-01-30 07:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would be equally hurt. It isn't the fact that he cheated with a man or a girl, but that he cheated at all. I feel that if I can be completely committed to a relationship then so can he. In my opinion if he cheats, he is showing a lack of control. A little self restraint has never hurt anyone. It would be difficult for me to trust him, and it would take a long time for him to regain that trust.
2007-01-30 08:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Monique M 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I guess if I was a woman I'd feel insulted if he banged a man over me. But cheating with a woman...there is a territorial issue there. What reason would he have to cheat you anyway? If you have a heathy relationship then there should be no reason to ask this.
2007-01-30 09:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whether he cheated with a man or woman, it would still hurt really bad. In both instances he is lying and being deceptive.
2007-01-30 08:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by CuteCaribChic 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would have more of an issue if he cheated on me with another woman. I guess my reasoning for that is that if they chose another woman it would be competition plain and simple. However if it was another man it wouldn't necessarily mean that they were cheating as much as that they were not straight and that they were homosexual.
2007-01-30 07:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Worry that he had done it before and then contracted Aids and gave it to me--cheating is cheating no matter man or woman--its just nasty --
2007-01-30 07:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What's the difference?
Cheating is cheating.
It's not like one is worse than the other, if someone's hiding bi-sexuality, it's no worse than hiding an affair. It might give you a little mental trip as to your worth or ability to please in the sack, but the truth remains, it's still just cheating.
2007-01-30 08:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by jirstan2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cheating is cheating, and either way it would be the end of any relationship I was in. There are no 2nd chances where a cheater is involved.
2007-01-30 07:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by buggsnme2 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A girl, because if it was a man than it was just his "sexual preference" and there was nothing I could do about it. I get very jealous of women, though it is better because we just got married, still it would be worse it were a girl. (hard to explain)
2007-01-30 07:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Something tells me you don't have to worry about anyone cheating on you girl (man or woman)!!! (wink)
2007-01-30 08:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋