Im not really good looking , not always funny ( I usually am but sometimes get stuck ) and not considered the coolest guy in town . How do I get the cute girl I like ? ( please be honest )
2007-01-30 07:50:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some girls only look at looks and if he has money. You do not want a girl like that because she will make any boys life hell. Find a reason to go up to her and say something. Something short and be friendly and smile. Next day do same thing and at what ever speed you fell safe with keep saying a little more like and you look very pretty today as you leave. In time you will be able to ask her out. If she says yes great. If she says no be nice and say OK and have a good day. I don't care who the boy or girl is in time will find a person that says no but you have to just move on and try another girl. Its better to know if she will or not then to always never know
2007-01-30 08:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by sara a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you have to have a better opinion of yourself. Even a guy who is not the best looking in the world has good features. You give Angelina Jolie's lips to Martha Stewart and it's not a pretty thing. You have to find the positive and be more self confident. A confident man is very appealing. Also the sense of humor thing while good does get to be bothersome after a while. there has to be something more and some substance. As far as being the coolest guy in town-that guy winds up a jerk with kids he does not support or better - in jail and WHY because he was so worried about keeping his coolness factor. The best boyfriend a girl could ever have is one that starts out as a friend. Start there and work outward. If she is worth asking the question maybe she is worth investing time in. If she still won't give you the time of day see it how it really is-She is just plain shallow and not worth the time or effort.
2007-01-30 07:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just cant until you start doing something about your looks or at least your boring personality, because it sounds borring if you admit yourself that you are not always funny. Trust me some ugly guys make a good boyfriends; best ones out there is they are cool, outgoing, funny and just fun to be with. Trust me i usually atract some of the pretiest guys for some weird reason and i be picky so much, but i went out with a guy before for 2 years that was far from my dream man example. We probably would last longer if he hasnt happened to get locked up for 6 years. So i believe you can do it, just open up personality wise and you are going to be just fine!
2007-01-30 08:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to put us off you?
You're doing a good job!
Just go and talk to the girl, and keep trying.
You also have to be ready to take a clear no for an answer.
Until then, try your best. Be bold enough to invite her for a drink and you should get an idea of where you stand if she offers an alternative.
Good luck.xx
2007-01-30 09:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your look, wear a cool hat, hit the gym. Act cocky that works all the time. Blow up your confidence. Confidence is sooooooooooooooooo sexy. Work make money spoil her and don't get stuck being shy. Go get her. Be persistent without being creepy. Tell her you have a large member ask her to go for a ride!! Good luck!!
2007-01-30 07:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by sharlene l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough one honey as us girls can often be a little shallow!!it all depends on the girl im afraid if she can see past looks!girls like confidence, kindness and someone who will treat them with the respect they deserve in a guy not just looks!i've learnt in this last year that often it is the guys who are not as vain and good looking that have the best personalities!im glad you say you have a sense of humour this to me is even more important than looks!let the girl know you like her and see what happens from there...if she knocks you back so be it...its her loss remember that!plenty more fish in the sea!!but be positive and confident...smile...and be yourself!also you shouldnt put yourself down so much honey!!good luck xx
2007-01-30 08:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by lil Miss Irish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she'd like to have a drink or lunch sometime... then move from there if she agrees, if she doesn't, don't take it personally. We all get rejected at one point in life, its part of life. don't put yourself down. You can not read what other people think of you, its what you think about yourself that should really count. Start thinking positive about yourself. Good Luck
2007-01-30 08:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self, I know I really do look for Personality above all.
It really shouldn't matter on looks, or status but so many people do base everything on that, she may miss out on a great guy but it is her loss.
Be true to your self is the best!
Good Luck
2007-01-30 08:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tammy N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to her, be romantic, and be chivalrous. If you have a nice personality that is ten times better than being good looking. Try talking to her and see how she responds. If you can have a conversation, try asking her out, if she gives you the "ew gross eye roll" than bail.
2007-01-30 07:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lady K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she looks pretty or nice. Listen to what she has to say, and be interested.
You don't have to be good looking to attract a girl.
Don't over do the compliments; you want them to come across as sincere.
You sound pretty nice to me...
Loads of good luck to you!
2007-01-30 08:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋