Are there any men bold enough to answer this question?

Question

honestly are there men who abstain from sex just find out
if she is what he want? and if so how did you go about it?
and she wanted the same thing,because it was something
you both choose, tired of being hurt?

Answer 1

Sex is a huge part of a relationship with a man. Face it, a man is not going to stay in a relationship if he knows the chemistry is not there. Grant it, there must have been something he saw in you in order for him to be aroused enough to actually want to date you. And yes, i said aroused. Because that's honestly what it's all about. SEX!

You can say what you want, listen to who you want.... I'm 36 years old and know that it is what it is. We are sexual beings and until we can overcome our desire for that, we'll always be.

It is true that our judgment of our partner is somewhat overtaken by our desire to have sex with them. I mean, some people stay in relationships simply because the sex is good even though they get treated like crap.

I say to those people, sex is good with anyone you want it to be good with. I can show my partner many things about sex and help her find her hot buttons, if you know what I mean. In turn, I'm looking for someone who can satisfy all of my desires. Not just the passion. So we keep searching this huge world, until we finally find the one we want. That's the hard part. Two different people comming together who were raised two different ways with different beliefs and expectations on relationships.
I can say that those who are brought together as friends first, end up making the best relationships. Also makes for the toughest ones when they end up breaking your heart.

Answer 2

I abstained until i figured out of relationship was going to be worthwhile...nothing against the woman just wanted a little more information before we went any further...ended up marrying here, 9 years ago.

Answer 3

I believe in getting to know who the lady truly is inside, because that is what really counts. It is hard to abstain from sex, but it is something that we are called to do, we are supposed to wait till marriage, and we all fall short some time or another. Sex is something that isn't to be taken lightly, many lives are changed dramatically, and many lives/relationships are damaged because of it. I believe my ex was the one, but I found out the hard way she wasn't.

Answer 4

yes there are men who can abstain from sex and there are some who can't i would do it mainly if i really liked her im not gonna look for it im going to go day in day out without worrying about it it makes the relationship stronger and the sex all the more better.

Answer 5

I don't think that abstinence is required to find out if a person is right for you. Physical compatibility is part of being right for each other. That being said, I recognize that most guys want to have sex just to have sex so you have to be careful. I also would respect a woman's choice to not have sex if she choice that course and find other ways to get to know her.

Answer 6

Yes. Was single for a long time. Had enough offers for sex but just wasn't after that "fling". Eventually found someone who meant more to me than just sex. Dated for about 6 months before took it to that level.

Answer 7

I do that to make sure she is what I want. You just gotta talk about it wif your bf/gf and come to a decision. I mean after many months sex will just come along unexpectedly, but that adds so much crap to the relationship so I just wait till marriage.

Answer 8

human beings use the anonymity of boards like this one to vent. I even have seen as lots white, Asian and Jew bashing on right here as I even have bashing of blacks. It pains to work out what a controversy race nonetheless is with some human beings, probably the greater youthful people who may be greater probable to be online. yet then i pass exterior to the actual international the place my different buddies all get alongside, have fun one yet another's trip journeys and merely stay their lives like regularly occurring human beings. And that provides me desire.

Answer 9

Anyone can have sex!!! Show me a couple that had sex on their 1st date that their releationship has lasted....A little wait in the beginning could mean a lifetime of love

Answer 10

I would. Actually I am going through that right now. As bad as I want to, I want to make sure she's "real" and not just saying and doing things to get what she wants.