Should I Break Up With one of them or try to split Valentines Day between two dates?
It seems like it would be very difficult to have two dates on Valentines Day.
I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic to elaborate on my thoughts.
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2007-01-30 07:33:34 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG PLAYER!!!
YOU SHOULDN"T BE DATING TWO GIRLS IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-30 07:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
If you are not married and just dating it is fine for you to have two dates. You are just dating....
But, you did not ask for my opinion right? So, I say split the day. Have a picnic/ ice skating Valentine during the day and a dinner/ movie date in the evening.
May the best girl or guy win...
2007-01-30 07:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by KEOE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say brake up with both because if your truly in love with someone you wouldn't cheat on them in the first place. It seems to me that both your relationships are knew and your just beginning to know both women so it would unrealistic to even think of celebrating valentines day with any of them, just because of the fact that valentines day is a celebration of the love that 2 people share for each other. Its a time to say I love you to the person the 1 person that you care most about and that makes you feel crazy about. You cant find all that in 2 people at once you cant you have to choose one that you have deeper feelings for if you must celebrate valentines day. If not and you choose to celebrate with both or you just go for the easiest girl you can get laid with then your so called valentines celebration is not true and that would just be sad lol. Go with your heart and your gut instincts.
Best of wishes Kesha
2007-01-30 07:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's OK to DATE different women, it's not OK to have two girlfriends/relationships. Assuming that you are just dating and nothing is serious, why are you obligated to spend Valentine's Day with either of them? Just pick the one you think you'd have a better time with and ask her. The other one shouldn't mind if she doesn't consider herself your girlfriend in the first place.
If you are leading them both to believe you are serious, then you are going to have to break up with one of them. In the long run, as much as I am sure that guys love to have the extra option for sex, having two girlfriends is more work, more emotion and more expensive than most guys really need- right?
2007-01-30 07:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Tooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Color yourself broke the day after Valentines--Who are you to wreak someones day because you have been selfish in seeing two --so you made your bed--sleep in it--Mr. Macho man --show the world how wonderful you are by romancing more than your fair share--too bad I didn't know these girls--they would find out that you are two timer and dump you--end of WHA WHA what to do--And no not at all curious of a self centered person as your self--BTW if you are braggin about all this cheating stuff you aint gettin it --L- make that a double LL
2007-01-30 07:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey its ok to be dating two people at once. But it sounds like you are not being very honest with either girl and you are likely to be all by your self this V-Day. You should make it clear that you do not intend to settle with just one girl yet, then its on them as to how much they choose to get involved with you. So be a big boy and tell the truth. These two girls will most likely dump you for your dishonesty. Gosh you single people are nuts. When your married you don't get the option to date around so why would you condemn yourself to a marrage like situation? Or even two phoney ones? Really its ok,dating as many girls as possible is what you should be doing, just don't lie to the girls to get into their pants. That doesn't make you a good person fella.
2007-01-30 07:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask both girls to meet you at a very nice restaurant. Tell girl A and girl B that your dating both of them so wish to treat both to a very nice meal here. Both girls will leave or only 1 will leave or both will stay. You can how have a great Valentines day with both, 1 or by yourself. Cross your fingers maybe both are bi
2007-01-30 07:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by sara a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Valentines Day You should take a bottle of Champagne and beat yourself over the head with it , for being such a two timer. Valentines is for people who are truly in Love not Lust.
2007-01-30 07:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, have you thought of telling the women about the other woman? You never know, They may be really into it.
OK, you can try the 2 date thing, but most likely its not going to work out. Besides, doesn't that get expensive? do you want to break up with one of them anyways and have just been waiting for the right time? I guess if you want to make sure she never forgets what a jerk you are, then breaking up with her ON valentines day would be best. ( Second only to breaking up with her on her B-Day )
2007-01-30 07:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I suggest that you see if both even like V-day...If one is not interested then that solves that problem. Send one flowers and a bear or something like that and then hook up with the other. A bit of advice. Hook up with the one that is a sure thing and let the chips fall where they may w/ the other. Playa Playa
2007-01-30 07:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by Guyanese Goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not curious about the blog. But here's a suggestion on the gift purchases. When it comes to what to purchase get two of the same things but two different colors.
2007-01-30 07:38:32 · answer #11 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋