guys how would you feel if you were friends with a girl she wasnt physically attractive to you, but she loved having sex with you? Is this ever guys dream or would you want a relationship with her?
2007-01-30 07:30:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She'd be less than a prostitute, because she was doing men she wasn't in a relationship with AND not charging him for it. What guy wants a relationship with a woman who is beneath a whore? A loser.
2007-01-30 07:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, I've had a few friends that we ended up having a sexual relationship but no real love/attraction type of relationship - as long as jealousy doesn't rear its haed you should have fun. There is a difference between sex and making love. Just watch that one of you doesn't allow the enjoyment of the physical activity to make you think your actually in love.
2007-01-30 15:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by awfay2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first you never turn down sex. Secondly friends w/ benefits rock. Save the drama for someone who rocks your world. Having a buddy like that keeps you away from dating duds for the purpose of sex. Some guys do want to have exclusive relationships but no sex in the meantime sucks. So put a bag on her face and have fun!! And this answer comes to you courteously from a chick!!
2007-01-30 15:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by sharlene l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh. No, this is not every guy's dream.
The dream would be that she IS Physically attractive.
How does it work in you scenario? She is sleeping with you but you keep thiking that she is one ugly, out of shape girl?
Giveme a break...
I'm not talking about her needing to be a Perfect 10, or beutiful in aabsolute term, but if you want to be "freinds with benefits" with someone, at least you have to think that they are somewhat attractive.
2007-01-30 15:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Concerned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to some people, myself included, sex is a sign of affection, not just something you do because you're bored. The girl I'm having sex with I hope I will be in a very deep, meaningful relationship with.
2007-01-30 15:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by El Castigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I've got one of those. We are completely NOT romanticly compatible so a serious relationship is outta the question. This has been mutually agreed. But sex is . . well . . whoaaaaa.
It's kinda cool because I don't find myself messing with someone else simply because we're having sex, 'cause I already get that. Abundantly!
2007-01-30 15:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Los 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't physically attractive to me, why would I have sex with her?
I think a person who did this would be selling herself short on two fronts here. She'd be trying to boink you into loving her, instead of boinking him because you DO love her. People are more than itch scratchers.
This is under the guise of friendship and it just doesn't sit right with me.
Find someone who loves you, and who you love back, THEN make love.
2007-01-30 15:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys have relationships like that all the time! It starts with, "Here's $20..." and ends with her getting back to the street corner before her pimp shows up.
2007-01-30 15:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should be witheld until marriage .. friends with benefits are not really friends .. you mess up the friendship with sex.
2007-01-30 15:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by talent4god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. And depends on the girl that is in question. If she's hot most guys won't care.
2007-01-30 15:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by Curious George 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋