There is no rule in a relationship that you have to pay for everything.... I went last year without mine as she didnt have the money. I payed for her skiing the year before asnd if she cant be bothered to do loads of over time like i have to do go on extra holidays then she can stay at home. So i think you should go... your not her parent or bank manager.... Have a good one.
2007-01-30 07:35:17
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answered by 2 good 2 miss 6
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depends on how expensive your whole ski trip is. if the per-person cost is nothing too ridiculous and you can comfortably afford for 2 without secretly blaming her not having money, then i'd say, why not pay for her? That said, if i had to pay for EVERYTHING including flights, lodging, HER ski rentals, food and transportation?! even if i could easily afford it, I still wouldn't be very happy. don't do it if you are going to secretly hate her for it, or hold a grudge.
has she been wanting to go skiing for a long time? if so, she should have planned ahead to save money for the trip, she shouldn't have expected you to pay for her. on the other hand, if the trip is kind of a short-notice thing, I wouldn't hold it against her if she doesn't have money.
is she really into skiing? does she want to go on this trip badly? if she's indifferent, then why don't you go with friends on a group trip. next time, you two can plan ahead, and she can save some money.
2007-01-31 23:52:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Half-day tickets are often much cheaper.
Also, snow tubing is a cheaper alternative that can be a lot of fun. Take her snow tubing in the morning, then send her back to the lodge and get your half day lift ticket for the afternoon and go rip it up without her. Nice little compromise. Enjoy!!!
2007-01-31 11:18:15
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answered by Dujo 2
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I'll give you a few of options
1: get a new girl that is hotter and can afford to go. (hotter being the key here, preferrably her paying for your trip too)
2: Treat her to the trip because that means she will have to "put out" like a mad woman.
3: Go with your buds and have a great time without her
My opinion... go with #1. If you love her #2. If you borderline want to kill her and need time with the homies #3.
P.S. Snowboarding is better than skiing
2007-01-30 15:55:22
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answered by endosmoka 3
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go with yer mates you will have a better time on the piste for a week especially if you go to saux ze deau in italy,
2007-01-31 14:11:01
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answered by steve h 1
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Treat her to go skiing.
2007-01-30 15:36:16
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answered by Princess Shai 3
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go somewhere cheaper maybe near a dry ski slope .
skiing is so expensive cant blame her not being able to afford it ,try turkey thats cheap
2007-01-30 15:38:44
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answered by Nutty Girl 7
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go without her(if it's her fault)or try and get the money for her. personally i would go and have a good time,but if your girlfriend is like mine it won't happen...good luck
2007-01-30 15:36:30
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answered by mrgee32uk 2
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you in the uk?
Take her to the excape at castleford (north england) holiday in nearby whitby or york. et voila!
2007-01-30 15:58:03
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answered by becbark 2
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Make sure you take lots of photos and bring her a nice gift back lol
2007-01-30 15:36:54
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answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5
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