OK. I'm in 8th grade in a pirvate school. I have a lot of girls as friends. I think that a lot of the guys are jerks and are just immature. I'm all good for fun and games, but they are just jerks.
I have been around a lot of girls my whole life (if i wanted to, or not) so i just get along with them.
I have been made fun of for hanging out with mostly girls and wearing uggs and stuff. Some guys have even called my gay (and i know i'm not).
is this bad to hang out with girls a lot? are they just jeleous? anything else???
Thanks!
2007-01-30 07:24:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a intelligent, kind person. If the guys act like this, than perhaps you are better off with female friends? Do what makes you happy and try not to allow the teasing to get to you. If somebody sees you get angry or upset over their namecalling, they do it more. Don't let others get to you-that will get to them.
Good luck-you'll be fine.
2007-01-30 07:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jiselley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be a total tom boy. I've grown up all my life with boys, I have four brothers out of five kids ( i'm the oldest) I work in a male enviornment ( guitar center), I live with my boyfriend and 3 other male roommates. I'm SURRONDED BY GUYS all the time and let me tell you something sometimes it drives me crazy and I have to get away and hang out with girls. You're at the age where people are ruthless and mean and for a young boy it's important for you to hang out with boys ( or you will be marked the whole "gay" thing)
Guys ACT like jerks cause they think that's what will make them look cool in front of their friends. Try getting into sports or some sort of academic club.
they aren't jealous either. they are just being boys.
2007-01-30 15:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No having alot of girl friends does not make you gay. It's not the norm so your peers are probably not comfortable with it. What you need to focus on is whether you enjoy having so many girls as friends.
If you are enjoying your relationships with your friends, regardless of their sex, then it is beneficial to you. My best friend in High School was a girl and it was a great thing and yes I got some flack because of it in the beginning but people got over it. The other boys at your school will too.
2007-01-30 15:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Eric H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I could tell u, they probably they are jealous of u. Because u have a lot of Girls friends and they not. An it is not bad hanging out with girls. That is about it so don't pay attention to them.
2007-01-30 16:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt matter who you are friends with. Friends isn't just about gender there's a lot more to it. If you have 100 friends and 75 of them are girls, it doesn't matter. But if out of 100 friends and 99 of them are girls, then maybe it would be good to start hanging out with more guys.
2007-01-30 15:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad that you hang out with girls but its bad that you wear uggs. You can get uggs at http://urlx.org/directtrack.com/94bab , all you have to do is fill out the survey and you will recieve them. My sister got her uggs from that site and all she had to do was enter in her email address.
2007-01-30 17:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lousy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, jealousy definitely comes to mind from your description.
Enjoy your time with the ladies. Hopefully one day you'll snag a good one and all the "gay" talk will stop.
Good luck!
2007-01-30 15:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you shouldn't listen to any of them as there's absolutely nothing wrong with you.You are obviously very mature for your age as guys are considered in general immature.Don't change as guys like you are the the ones girls like to have.Hope I helped!
2007-01-30 15:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't bad at all.... And perhaps they are jealous. Or they just want someone to make fun of. n
2007-01-30 15:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not gay then theyre just jealous cause the ladies like you and dont lke themm.
2007-01-30 15:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋