He never earned my trust but I fell in love with him anyway, does that make sense? I mean he was never on time, always had other women calling his phone, I followed him & found him with another girl. Yeah, I lied about it at first but later admitted that I did it. So did I not earn his trust or did he not earn mine? Was I being jealous & insecure when I followed him, or was I just following my gut? I mean I don't think I did anything different then a lot of suspicious women would've done. Why couldn't he trust me, because I had ways of always catching him in his lies. Because I talked on the phone to another girl he was pursuing a relationship with. He said he felt betrayed, but he was keeping secrets from me & I opened my life & my heart to him. So who's trust wasn't earned?
2007-01-30 07:24:50 · 6 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say it like this but it isnt that he didnt earn your trust, he ruined it. Doesnt sound like he is ready for a commitment.
2007-01-30 07:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by chaa107 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you were following your gut. If your gut hadnt been right, THEN you should feel bad. But if you had a suspicious feeling and followed him, just to find him doing exactly what you thought he was doing, then he is a LOSER. I dont think this is a case of whose trust was earned and whose wasnt... I think its more simple. HE cheated, you had a gut feeling, you followed it, you were right and now it sounds like he is trying to BLAME you for being right. Just dump him, and in the future, Dont date a guy who has EVER cheated, because he will cheat on you too.
2007-01-30 15:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't make sense. You let your emotions take precedence over common sense and got yourself involved with a loser. You should have followed your gut first, not last.
Next time stop seeing a guy the minute you find out he lies and has other women.
It really doesn't matter who did what- it's your life not his.
2007-01-30 15:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be assured that he didn't earn your trust. And it doesn't sound like he deserved it either.
2007-01-30 15:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you love him if you can't trust him?
2007-01-30 15:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is
2007-01-30 15:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ivan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋